A power exchange is very much akin to a delegation of authority, only more sexual. I will openly say that the power exchange within our relationship is not a straightforward as an instruction book or pulp fiction novel will tell you. This is mainly because it involves real people with feelings, egos, baggage and love. […]
It has taken me a long to get to grips with humiliation. Getting my head around the topic was constantly blocked by something, and for the life of me I just couldn’t break through the invisible barrier. Missy gets off being made aware that her body is giving her away when involved in activies that […]
When I was a kid I played two roles in school Christmas Nativity plays. One year I was a Roman soldier and another year one of Joseph’s (Technicoloured Dream Coat) brothers. There was something about dressing up and being someone else for a while. Okay, this was 45 years ago, however, I can still remember […]
Dominance is very much about a state of mind. You may disagree, however, the more I look at it the more I am convinced that the essence of Dominance is a state of mind. You could argue that any conscious thought is a controlled state of mind, and you would be probably right. After all, […]
I have placed my trust a great many people over the years. Some I have trusted with my life; on the end of a rope, behind the wheel of a car, on the back of a motorbike and even on the end of gun. Others I have trusted to do what is right morally to […]
I can recal going to the pantomime in London and seeing Puss-In-Boots with Barbara Windsor playing the part of Dick Whittington the boy who unwittingly became the Lord Mayor Of London (allegedly). Ms. Windsor dressed as a boy wore a suspiciously short Lovet Green short and thigh length boots. To emphasise certain lines she would […]
There are lots of things I have forgotten about my youth, thankfully! However, the two that have remained is my first discussion about sperm, and my first wank. (Orgasms) You have the option at this point to stop reading or skip to the Sperm or Wanking paragraphs. Sperm I would have only been about 8 […]
I do not like feeling vulnerable. In days past I worked in places where being vulnerable put you at risk, and others around you. The environment created a certain internal arrogance that gave me the confidence to get through situations that were forever changing. Put me in a situation where something goes wrong, I will […]
The first time the word ‘submit’ came into my vocabulary was wrestling with my father as a kid. 1970’s wrestling was a must-watch slot on the Saturday afternoon World Of Sport show. The broadcast always came from places like the Dunsthorpe Community Hall, or the Crickleworth Royal British Legion Community and Red Cross Voluntary Centre. […]