Resets – #Tellmeabout

In a dark corner of warehouse there is probably is a man desperately trying to make a reset button.  His vision is that when you hit it, all previous misdemeanours are evaporated without discussion and everything starts again, like a new day.  But this man, whilst being a visionary, is ironically short-sighted.  If such a […]

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Scenes – #Tellmeabout

The word ‘scene’ in a D/s context is pretty well chosen when you consider one of the general definitions; ‘a sequence of continuous action in a play, film, opera, or book.’ I suppose to some extent sexual play is an opera, film, book or play; lots of drama, slightly voyeuristic from a Dom’s perspective, staged […]

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Analise This

I would imagine that a lot of posts on this subject reflect on female subs receiving anal sex.  There may be one or two that don’t, so for balance, this one won’t; or at least it won’t be dominated by the interactions of missy’s love of having her arse played with, although I may steer […]

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Consent –

If I were to reflect on my teenage years, specifically the occasions where sex was involved, I would have to say there are some blurred lines, and in one or two situations a clear step over the line. For the purpose of balance, it would be wrong of me not to mention where my consent […]

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Rituals

Over the years missy and I have tried numerous rituals.  Most of them have fallen by the wayside, mainly due to the fact they either were not practical, or, in truth, they did not mean enough to me to continue with them.  We too have tried kneeling, bum in air on the bed, slave positions, […]

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Friends – TMA

I don’t have any close friends living near me, in fact I don’t have anyone I could call a close friend within 150 miles of my home location.  My closest male friend lives 500 miles away and we speak on the phone every 2 weeks or so.  I don’t associate at all with any other […]

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Power Exchange

A power exchange is very much akin to a delegation of authority, only more sexual.  I will openly say that the power exchange within our relationship is not a straightforward as an instruction book or pulp fiction novel will tell you. This is mainly because it involves real people with feelings, egos, baggage and love. […]

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Humiliation #tellmeabout

It has taken me a long to get to grips with humiliation.  Getting my head around the topic was constantly blocked by something, and for the life of me I just couldn’t break through the invisible barrier. Missy gets off being made aware that her body is giving her away when involved in activies that […]

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Role Play

When I was a kid I played two roles in school Christmas Nativity plays. One year I was a Roman soldier and another year one of Joseph’s (Technicoloured Dream Coat) brothers.  There was something about dressing up and being someone else for a while. Okay, this was 45 years ago, however, I can still remember […]

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Dominance

Dominance is very much about a state of mind. You may disagree, however, the more I look at it the more I am convinced that the essence of Dominance is a state of mind.  You could argue that any conscious thought is a controlled state of mind, and you would be probably right. After all, […]

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