Marriage Guidance

Could D/s Be The Replacment For Marriage Guidance?

Could D/s be the replacement for Marriage Guidance? (MG)  I’m aware that is both a bold and broad brush question, however, just bear with me a moment. My marriage to missy is not my first, and her likewise.  We have been to this rodeo before as one of my American friends once put it, and […]

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She’s A Kinda’ Mover

There is one thing that turns me on about Missy that can be shared in public and that is her youthful energy when dancing.  She really does dance like no one is watching.  She smiles and laughs when she moves on the floor. It’s contagious to the point that she draws people in, including me, […]

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Travel Broadens The Mind

As some of you know, I have to travel away from home to earn a living a fair amount.  Most of the places I visit are not holiday hotspots, however, once in a while I get lucky and get one or two evenings to eat out and meet the wildlife!  This post isn’t travel writing, […]

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It’s Okay To Be Not-Normal

There’s always chat about vanilla and non-vanilla activity in a D/s relationship.  They are only words that help people understand what’s going on at the time, a bit like ‘You Are Here’ on a laminated tourist map. I’m sure you have your own thoughts on such terms and whether you like them or not.  I […]

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It’s Happened Again, and I’m Annoyed

Today I read a post that spelled out what a Dominant must be. In fact it didn’t just say what a Dominant must be, it told the reader what you have to be in order to be an effective one.  You “have to know yourself at sacred level” and “be hungry for it” and “if […]

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The Ali Punch and Mrs. Blair’s Knickers

In a fun activity prior to attending this year’s Eroticon, guests were asked to answer some questions about themselves.  One of the questions was two truths and a lie, a concept that I thought was fun. However, it did take some time to think something up that was plausible and Mr. Ali did feature, hence […]

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A Place In The Sun

  When missy and I first got together we managed to escape to a small villa in Tuscany for two weeks.  It was pre-D/s, although not entirely pre-kink!  The days were hot and the evenings a warm blanket of perfumed air.  We drove hundreds of miles that holiday, hopping from one fortress town to the […]

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It’s Ok To Watch (Revised Title)

I read a post today by Xtac who told the tale of  his recent journey through an airport and the people he met along the way. I too am a people watcher. I worked at an airport for 20 years and everyday was a smorgasbord of human interaction.  In recent years I have travelled a fair […]

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My Dominance Up Close & Personal In 20 Days #19

Today marked a low point in my D/s journey to date.  I have found the motivation to stay on top of things a real challenge, almost a sad feeling.  Missy has attempted to support me in all manner of ways both in D/s and general life, and yet there was something always getting the in […]

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My Dominance Up Close And Personal in 20 Day #12

On a recent application form it included a number of boxes for me to tick regarding my colour, gender, religion, marital status and inside leg measurement.  I detest these additions to applications.  I fully appreciate some department, in the basement of a building, in small windowless room, with a flickering single florescent tube, sits a […]

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