It didn’t take long for our kink to become the norm. The gloves were off, well the latex ones were one, but you get the metaphor I’m sure! We started to spend money on toys, lots of toys, lots of crappy toys and some good ones. We made mistakes, got things right and then wrong […]
I can’t remember exactly the words missy used to ask if I would to dominate her, and she be my submissive. Whatever they were, it was effective, albeit a little confusing. I think missy had 80% of it worked out in her head and I must have got the other 20%. It probably took me […]
TW-TW-TW started out as a scribble on the back on an envelope which soon became too full and too incriminating to have lying around! My scribbles were my own and the accountability to complete them rested with me only. This not only meant it was easily lost under the pile of other old envelopes I […]
The first time the word ‘submit’ came into my vocabulary was wrestling with my father as a kid. 1970’s wrestling was a must-watch slot on the Saturday afternoon World Of Sport show. The broadcast always came from places like the Dunsthorpe Community Hall, or the Crickleworth Royal British Legion Community and Red Cross Voluntary Centre. […]
I have read quite amount of literature both in paperback and online about being a Dom. A lot of it is very much based on actually being a Dominant and revolves around play. I suppose the closest analogy I can drum up would be a travel writer telling you about all the marvelous places they […]
Firstly, a big thank you to those of you either commented on my last post or sent a private message. I was rather surprised to be honest, not that I stood alone on this subject, a the few did say, “Me too!” What is the term for a slow day for a Dom? A slom? […]
To focus my attention I thought I would write every day for 20 days and display under a virtual magnifying glass, my daily D/s interaction with missy. I have no idea at this stage what the outcome will be, however, I will be honest and open. The project may not produce a great read, and […]
Dear readership, is has been 49 days since my last post. I have tried, well sort of tried, however, the words or ideas just were not there. I worked away from home for the majority of December and I do tend to get a bit self absorbed when I do that. I have a number […]
My wife and I have always spoken openly about our sexual relationship. She would prefer I spoke more out our emotional relationship, however, that comes easier to her for lots of ways. The main two reasons I think, is that it means a great deal to her and the other is that she works hard […]
Despite having a tag name of HisLordship, I do not claim to hold any title to reaffirm my dynamic or provide advice via a blog. I’m a man in a Dominant and submissive relationship with my wife. There are many people on the internet who claim to be masters, born Dominants and even, ‘Jedi.’ Some […]