She’s A Kinda’ Mover

There is one thing that turns me on about Missy that can be shared in public and that is her youthful energy when dancing.  She really does dance like no one is watching.  She smiles and laughs when she moves on the floor. It’s contagious to the point that she draws people in, including me, […]

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Is anyone there?

Do you use your blog to communicate to your partner? Don’t worry, this isn’t a deep and meaningful post full of dramatic skylines and prosaic monologue!  I’m just curious if you are in a similar position. Missy and I have the ability to communicate quite well  (although there’s always room for improvement) and not all […]

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My Dominance Up Close & Personal In 20 Days #19

Today marked a low point in my D/s journey to date.  I have found the motivation to stay on top of things a real challenge, almost a sad feeling.  Missy has attempted to support me in all manner of ways both in D/s and general life, and yet there was something always getting the in […]

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My Dominance Up Close And Personal in 20 Days #10

Yesterday I had a job interview.  It was one of those jobs that could have been written for you, which to be honest, it added a bit more pressure to the whole event. In my line of work, things like this do not come up everyday.  suffice to say I did my homework, practiced my […]

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My Dominance Up Close And Personal In 20 Days #9

Fortunately for me, Sunday was quiet.  The reason I say fortunate is for the pure fact that I forget to mention something important yesterday.  I purchased Missy a new day collar for her birthday, and it had arrived.   The wearing of a collar is very important to her, and therefore the style needs to be […]

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My Dominance Up Close & Personal in 20 Days #8

Saturday is our day to communicate formally.  We usually either have a cup of team in bed and talk, or if we wake up late, hunger tends to draw us to the kitchen.  We try to get an hour of uninteruppted conversation before the kids start preparing for their Saturday jobs.  As I has said […]

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My Dominance Up Close & Personal in 20 Days #7

I have been doing a fair amount of reading the past few days.  I’m sure there is nothing in the material that would interest you; it’s for a job interview and therefore I need to ‘appraise’ myself on all there is know about the company.  I have interviewed a lot of people over the years […]

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My Dominance Up Close and Personal in 20 Days #6

Managing emotions is much harder than managing physical illness.  You can’t put a bandage on stress and or apply an ice pack to tears.  It’s a little bit like canoeing in white water, you have to look for signs and adapt accordingly.  Sometimes lean back and do nothing but rest, and other times you paddle […]

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My Dominance Up Close & Personal in 20 Days #3

I have had to review the aim and objectives of this project.  I looked back on the past few days and realised it was not looking as I intended.  As the reader you were getting a look into our sex life, which whilst I do not mind sharing,  that was not the main intention.  I […]

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