I am the Law

(Originally posted at www.thesafewordsclub.com) The phrase, ‘I am the Law’ comes from a number of sources, however, my first encounter was the science fiction comic 2000AD in the late 1970s.  In fact, on reflection, the odd characters dressed in leather being pursued by Judge Dredd on a massive motorbike may have sparked something in me […]

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What’s the plan Stan?

In my first post of the year I mentioned that I would be spending more time planning, and that I felt it was a key component of a D/s relationship, or any relationship for that matter!  I have often heard that even a well constructed plan never survives first contact with enemy, and in principle […]

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Conflict

I read somewhere that ‘conflict is a natural part of the creative circle’ or words to that effect. I can agree with that in part, although there’s little creativity in not speaking, which is how a lot of conflict ends up with couples. I’m a strong  believer that you can work towards the avoidance of […]

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Beyond Sight & Sound

Having engaged in some novice sensation play last night, my sub asked me I would like to experience it also?  Not being one to turn down the opportunity of trying something new and having the opportunity to relax and learn something, I said,”yes.” We agreed that I should be immobilised as she had been earlier with hands […]

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The Voyeur In Me

For most of my sexual life I have drawn on images to enhance masterbation; that’s not a new invention I know, I’m just putting that out there to set the scene of the post. As a young man I would also imagine the internal

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Nudity

Following up on Being Nude Anywhere Is Thrilling by Tall, Dark and Dominant, I admit that I’m more of an exhibitionist that my wife. I do love nudity and nude people. I’m not concerned about people’s appearance as far as nudity is concerned. I obviously have my preferences sexually, but as far as a visual smorgasbord goes, […]

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What’s in a name? (….)

  I fully intended to write something about a Dominant & submissive relationship during illness. This, on second thoughts, would likely be as uninteresting as doing housework fully clothed… On reflection, knowing what sparked the interest to write anything is the important thing I suppose.  For the purposes of this blog, lets assume that I have thought about it properly […]

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Circumstance Unrelated. Part IV – The Headless Soldier

Amidst the backdrop of Napoleonic War raging across Europe, soldiers seek distraction from the horrors of the battle field. Major Grant is an officer of the British Army serving under Wellington in France. An officer, a gentleman and a connoisseur of female bottoms, Major Grant finds himself unusually captivated by a mysterious woman….. My duties […]

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Circumstance Unrelated. Part III – The Doctor Brings News

  Amidst the backdrop of Napoleonic War raging across Europe, soldiers seek distraction from the horrors of the battle field. Major Grant is an officer of the British Army serving under Wellington in France. An officer, a gentleman and a connoisseur of female bottoms, Major Grant finds himself unusually captivated by a mysterious woman….. On […]

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