Observe

It had been years since he had last been able to observe her. That beautiful face, so innocent and yet alluring. Despite the years and the mist on the bus window, it was definitely her. London is a big place and if someone doesn’t want to be found, it can be easily achieved. Likewise, the […]

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Nailed It!

I have to admit that I am partial to a bit of DIY despite not being classed as skilled labour. It all stems from my Dad who would say, “You need to watch me fixing this son, it will save you a fortune when you’re older.” He was was right. I have engaged in many […]

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Analise This

I would imagine that a lot of posts on this subject reflect on female subs receiving anal sex.  There may be one or two that don’t, so for balance, this one won’t; or at least it won’t be dominated by the interactions of missy’s love of having her arse played with, although I may steer […]

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Consent –

If I were to reflect on my teenage years, specifically the occasions where sex was involved, I would have to say there are some blurred lines, and in one or two situations a clear step over the line. For the purpose of balance, it would be wrong of me not to mention where my consent […]

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Rituals

Over the years missy and I have tried numerous rituals.  Most of them have fallen by the wayside, mainly due to the fact they either were not practical, or, in truth, they did not mean enough to me to continue with them.  We too have tried kneeling, bum in air on the bed, slave positions, […]

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Friends – TMA

I don’t have any close friends living near me, in fact I don’t have anyone I could call a close friend within 150 miles of my home location.  My closest male friend lives 500 miles away and we speak on the phone every 2 weeks or so.  I don’t associate at all with any other […]

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The Hot Octopuss JETT

I am no stranger when it comes to using, and reviewing Hot Octopuss products.  I like their people and I like their kit.  They produce well thought out, well designed and well manufactured sex toys.  If that isn’t reason enough to buy from them, I don’t know what is.  My last review was for the […]

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Power Exchange

A power exchange is very much akin to a delegation of authority, only more sexual.  I will openly say that the power exchange within our relationship is not a straightforward as an instruction book or pulp fiction novel will tell you. This is mainly because it involves real people with feelings, egos, baggage and love. […]

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Humiliation #tellmeabout

It has taken me a long to get to grips with humiliation.  Getting my head around the topic was constantly blocked by something, and for the life of me I just couldn’t break through the invisible barrier. Missy gets off being made aware that her body is giving her away when involved in activies that […]

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Role Play

When I was a kid I played two roles in school Christmas Nativity plays. One year I was a Roman soldier and another year one of Joseph’s (Technicoloured Dream Coat) brothers.  There was something about dressing up and being someone else for a while. Okay, this was 45 years ago, however, I can still remember […]

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