Snow-way!

Today in the UK is Boxing Day, 26th December. For those of you are unfamiliar with the term, it refers to St.Stephens Day; A religious holiday marked in the UK, when on the day after Christmas, the servants would receive gift boxes from their employers and mark the day they could spend with their families. […]

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My Dancing Queen

My gorgeous sub posted on her blog that on the 22nd December she would dance for me (see http://www.submissy.com/). As things turned out, a work colleague and friend or hers came to dinner and stayed quite late. She lives alone and we always encourage her to have a good time with us. She knows about our […]

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It’s Been Some Time….

It’s been a while since I last posted something of a personal nature, despite having a wealth of material created by my darling Missy! Her 25 days of Christmas programme, designed to give a gift for each of the days of December, has been real sustenance for feeding my dominance.  Please don’t be confused with dominance equating […]

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Bear Necessities 

Living on this planet means that you have little influence on the decisions of others. Whether you are a human, a horse or a river, external forces will change the way you make your way through life. However, being human, we do have an added advantage.  We have conscious thought; the power to change ourselves […]

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Assumptions and a south facing garden

I received an email from a new Dom a number of weeks ago thanking us (SubMissy.com) for our blog posts and asking for some pointers in his discovery of D/s.  I only managed to respond to him today as I wanted to give him my undivided attention. Having taken the time to think about my […]

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Remembrance Sunday

Tomorrow, at 11am, I will be standing in our local village along with veterans of all ages and representatives of the various youth groups that keep our children active throughout the year.  We will stand in front of a memorial made of white stone set in perfectly tended grounds with flower beds and a small […]

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Gin & Tonic (a personal note)

Today was one of those days you could do without that’s summed up in two words; no not ex-wife. The Dentist.  I needed a tooth extracted before reconstruction can start to replace it due to damage.  It was actually okay, the dentist is a good guy and for the money it’s costing me, he damn […]

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An Anniversary Gift

For those of you who frequent both this blog and that of my wife, submissy, you will know we celebrated our 2nd wedding anniversary last week.  Last year, being our first, was Paper. This year was Cotton and. I received some nice Shibari cotton rope for future adventures.  I thought it was Wood(?) for 2nd year and as […]

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