Lights, Camera, ACTION!

It would have been so very easy in the beginning to have found a book full of scene ideas.  How to set up a scene, why it’s important to communicate, what equipment to use and where best conduct a kinky sexual event.  There have lots of resources to tap in to despite missing a book: […]

Continue reading

Why So Serious?

It would be safe to say that as far as sexual activity is concerned, I’m open to most things. There are things I haven’t tried and will probably never get the opportunity to, however, that doesn’t mean I wouldn’t dress up like a pirate and have sex with my captive sub in front of a crowd […]

Continue reading

What’s in a name? (….)

  I fully intended to write something about a Dominant & submissive relationship during illness. This, on second thoughts, would likely be as uninteresting as doing housework fully clothed… On reflection, knowing what sparked the interest to write anything is the important thing I suppose.  For the purposes of this blog, lets assume that I have thought about it properly […]

Continue reading

It’s Not Just The Kink

It is fair to say that D/s is a personal thing between two people and is defined by both the dynamic of the lifestyle and their relationship. Nothing more can be more personal than the trust placed in one another to inflict both pleasure and pain. However, it’s not all about pleasure and pain is […]

Continue reading