I have often wondered when I knew I had an interest in kink. When WAS the time a bolt of lightening hit me that made me feel differently. Well, I’ve discovered it was in the late 80s, and I only worked that out this morning having mistakenly fallen on the catalyst during a spot of […]
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Beyond Sight & Sound
Having engaged in some novice sensation play last night, my sub asked me I would like to experience it also? Not being one to turn down the opportunity of trying something new and having the opportunity to relax and learn something, I said,”yes.” We agreed that I should be immobilised as she had been earlier with hands […]
Continue readingThe Voyeur In Me
For most of my sexual life I have drawn on images to enhance masterbation; that’s not a new invention I know, I’m just putting that out there to set the scene of the post. As a young man I would also imagine the internal
Continue readingNudity
Following up on Being Nude Anywhere Is Thrilling by Tall, Dark and Dominant, I admit that I’m more of an exhibitionist that my wife. I do love nudity and nude people. I’m not concerned about people’s appearance as far as nudity is concerned. I obviously have my preferences sexually, but as far as a visual smorgasbord goes, […]
Continue reading“To sleep, perchance to dream-ay, there’s the rub.”
I know immediately that my Missy will both recognise the quote I have used above, and be pleased that I have chosen Hamlet. I know that as a teacher, and a lover of literature, my acknowledgement of a Shakeperian quote sparks something in her mind that is pleasing. That is why I used it! If […]
Continue readingWatching Me, Watching You, Watching us.
I’ve been fancinated by the rise in couples who broadcast their sexuality online for reward. Everyday people, hooked up to the internet on a pay per view arrangement, grunting, sucking, squeeling and generally performing like trained seals. I watched a documentary last year that followed the lives of a selected few of these individuals. To […]
Continue readingWhere in the World?
Occasionally I look at my Stats page and I amazed so many different people from different cultures read the stuff I post. It always makes me smile that I can reach the world from this little iPad I’m holding. If you’re happy to play along with me, and I do hope you are, how about […]
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Today in the UK is Boxing Day, 26th December. For those of you are unfamiliar with the term, it refers to St.Stephens Day; A religious holiday marked in the UK, when on the day after Christmas, the servants would receive gift boxes from their employers and mark the day they could spend with their families. […]
Continue readingMy Perfect Bearer Of Gifts….
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Continue readingMy Dancing Queen
My gorgeous sub posted on her blog that on the 22nd December she would dance for me (see http://www.submissy.com/). As things turned out, a work colleague and friend or hers came to dinner and stayed quite late. She lives alone and we always encourage her to have a good time with us. She knows about our […]
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