Take-Aways

  I don’t know about you, but there are times, even when things generally could be a lot better, I feel closer to my partner. I said partner when I meant Missy, but that would imply that you too felt closer to her too. Maybe some of you do, or would like to as I […]

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One Afternoon In Schiphol Aiport

I’m on my travels again, Thailand this run.  Plenty of time to reflect during the layover at Schiphol Airport and then the 12 hour flight to Bangkok.  Sitting here in the lounge with a bowl of nuts and a white wine it’s a cozy place. You could snooze here quite easily and miss the flight, […]

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The Right Environment For D/s?

What would be the key environmental factor that helped you succeed I wonder? My eldest son called me today, which is always a treat.  I don’t just say that about him because he’s my son, I genuinely think he is a nice person and adds value to people’s lives by knowing him.  He was his […]

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Bully For You

Before you start to read this, there is no sexual content so please feel free to move on! She was the sister of one of the playground bullies. Two years older, blonde, very pretty and with a personality that cried for you to fall in love with her. Her brother, however, was a small, strong […]

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It’s Happened Again, and I’m Annoyed

Today I read a post that spelled out what a Dominant must be. In fact it didn’t just say what a Dominant must be, it told the reader what you have to be in order to be an effective one.  You “have to know yourself at sacred level” and “be hungry for it” and “if […]

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The Ali Punch and Mrs. Blair’s Knickers

In a fun activity prior to attending this year’s Eroticon, guests were asked to answer some questions about themselves.  One of the questions was two truths and a lie, a concept that I thought was fun. However, it did take some time to think something up that was plausible and Mr. Ali did feature, hence […]

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A Place In The Sun

  When missy and I first got together we managed to escape to a small villa in Tuscany for two weeks.  It was pre-D/s, although not entirely pre-kink!  The days were hot and the evenings a warm blanket of perfumed air.  We drove hundreds of miles that holiday, hopping from one fortress town to the […]

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Meet The Desperate Eye Of Censorship

Hi. I hope you don’t mind me taking advantage of this collective audience of writers. I’ve been wanting to talk to you for a while. And in order to do so, I’ve really had to….. have a word with myself! Change my approach. I mean, you’re human,. You have the ability to see things from […]

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Fishnet Stockings, Where’s The Catch?

It wasn’t always fishnets; I have always loved underwear on a woman, even back as a kid when my Mum bought clothes in the 1970s from catalogues. There I would be, staring at Action Man or Tonka Toys until she left the room, and with an almost silent whump of bulk pages being transported from […]

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It’s Ok To Watch (Revised Title)

I read a post today by Xtac who told the tale of  his recent journey through an airport and the people he met along the way. I too am a people watcher. I worked at an airport for 20 years and everyday was a smorgasbord of human interaction.  In recent years I have travelled a fair […]

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