Today I read a post that spelled out what a Dominant must be. In fact it didn’t just say what a Dominant must be, it told the reader what you have to be in order to be an effective one. You “have to know yourself at sacred level” and “be hungry for it” and “if […]
In a fun activity prior to attending this year’s Eroticon, guests were asked to answer some questions about themselves. One of the questions was two truths and a lie, a concept that I thought was fun. However, it did take some time to think something up that was plausible and Mr. Ali did feature, hence […]
When missy and I first got together we managed to escape to a small villa in Tuscany for two weeks. It was pre-D/s, although not entirely pre-kink! The days were hot and the evenings a warm blanket of perfumed air. We drove hundreds of miles that holiday, hopping from one fortress town to the […]
Hi. I hope you don’t mind me taking advantage of this collective audience of writers. I’ve been wanting to talk to you for a while. And in order to do so, I’ve really had to….. have a word with myself! Change my approach. I mean, you’re human,. You have the ability to see things from […]
It wasn’t always fishnets; I have always loved underwear on a woman, even back as a kid when my Mum bought clothes in the 1970s from catalogues. There I would be, staring at Action Man or Tonka Toys until she left the room, and with an almost silent whump of bulk pages being transported from […]
I read a post today by Xtac who told the tale of his recent journey through an airport and the people he met along the way. I too am a people watcher. I worked at an airport for 20 years and everyday was a smorgasbord of human interaction. In recent years I have travelled a fair […]
Author Jim Butcher is quoted to say, “For me chivalry isn’t dead; it’s an involuntary reflex.” To some level I personally agree, as this is how my mind works. What isn’t clear is how he defines chivalry. For me it is about being aware of your surroundings, reacting accordingly and appropriately. For example, I would […]
I have always loved pictures, either moving or still ever since I can remember, and I discovered something about myself the other day that surprised me as a kid. Our school took us into London to visit museums and the Tate National Portrait Galley. I was a 15 year old, pretty uneducated wannabe rebel on […]
In my last post, The Wall, I made reference to some Alpha males being unhelpful in man’s pursuit of development. I hope that the Alpha males I know personally or those online that I interact with could see it was not they I referred to. It is odd that I use the term ‘Alpha males,’ […]
You should try to learn from other people’s mistakes I tell my children. I am also a favourite of telling the aforementioned to learn from your own as well, and that’s where the trouble begins; I don’t do as I preach as often as I should, and oddly enough, neither do a lot of people, […]