A number of you who are cross-followers of both myself and missy will know that we have been running our own private (or not) Advent calendar for each other. Although some may groan at another person jumping on the band wagon of a Christmas-Advent-Kink idea, feel free, but I bet you’ll look at the pictures […]
Could D/s be the replacement for Marriage Guidance? (MG) I’m aware that is both a bold and broad brush question, however, just bear with me a moment. My marriage to missy is not my first, and her likewise. We have been to this rodeo before as one of my American friends once put it, and […]
I read with great interest a blog post entitled ‘Men Should STFU.‘ In fact it wasn’t just interest, it prompted a great deal of personal reflection. I do encourage you to read the original article as it covers a wider range of topics than the forthcoming text! The blog post really did make me look […]
There is one thing that turns me on about Missy that can be shared in public and that is her youthful energy when dancing. She really does dance like no one is watching. She smiles and laughs when she moves on the floor. It’s contagious to the point that she draws people in, including me, […]
As some of you know, I have to travel away from home to earn a living a fair amount. Most of the places I visit are not holiday hotspots, however, once in a while I get lucky and get one or two evenings to eat out and meet the wildlife! This post isn’t travel writing, […]
I don’t know about you, but there are times, even when things generally could be a lot better, I feel closer to my partner. I said partner when I meant Missy, but that would imply that you too felt closer to her too. Maybe some of you do, or would like to as I […]
I’m on my travels again, Thailand this run. Plenty of time to reflect during the layover at Schiphol Airport and then the 12 hour flight to Bangkok. Sitting here in the lounge with a bowl of nuts and a white wine it’s a cozy place. You could snooze here quite easily and miss the flight, […]
What would be the key environmental factor that helped you succeed I wonder? My eldest son called me today, which is always a treat. I don’t just say that about him because he’s my son, I genuinely think he is a nice person and adds value to people’s lives by knowing him. He was his […]
Before you start to read this, there is no sexual content so please feel free to move on! She was the sister of one of the playground bullies. Two years older, blonde, very pretty and with a personality that cried for you to fall in love with her. Her brother, however, was a small, strong […]
Today I read a post that spelled out what a Dominant must be. In fact it didn’t just say what a Dominant must be, it told the reader what you have to be in order to be an effective one. You “have to know yourself at sacred level” and “be hungry for it” and “if […]