Mentors

I have been fortunate enough, at an early age, to have mentors in my life.  Not just people who tell you stuff or instruct you; I am referring to people that give something of themselves whilst at the same time impart wisdom and support you.  My first real mentor was my father, who from a […]

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You Need Hands

I am currently working at a hospital in a non-medical related position.  It’s very odd at first being in such a place when you don’t really need to be there.  Not necessarily a fraud, but certainly out of place feeling quite well!  As for the sick people, well there are loads of them cluttering up […]

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Say The Right Thing; or not!

Oh my god, I laughed so hard. Not at the poor individual that made himself look stupid in front of his wife and councillor by using an unfamilar term; it was because I have done it too. The very quick back story is that a couple go to see a sex therapist as part of […]

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Merry F*%$?@ Christmas

A number of you who are cross-followers of both myself and missy will know that we have been running our own private (or not) Advent calendar  for each other.  Although some may groan at another person jumping on the band wagon of a Christmas-Advent-Kink idea, feel free, but I bet you’ll look at the pictures […]

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Marriage Guidance

Could D/s Be The Replacment For Marriage Guidance?

Could D/s be the replacement for Marriage Guidance? (MG)  I’m aware that is both a bold and broad brush question, however, just bear with me a moment. My marriage to missy is not my first, and her likewise.  We have been to this rodeo before as one of my American friends once put it, and […]

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Not All Men?

I read with great interest a blog post entitled ‘Men Should STFU.‘  In fact it wasn’t just interest, it prompted a great deal of personal reflection.  I do encourage you to read the original article as it covers a wider range of topics than the forthcoming text! The blog post really did make me look […]

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She’s A Kinda’ Mover

There is one thing that turns me on about Missy that can be shared in public and that is her youthful energy when dancing.  She really does dance like no one is watching.  She smiles and laughs when she moves on the floor. It’s contagious to the point that she draws people in, including me, […]

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Travel Broadens The Mind

As some of you know, I have to travel away from home to earn a living a fair amount.  Most of the places I visit are not holiday hotspots, however, once in a while I get lucky and get one or two evenings to eat out and meet the wildlife!  This post isn’t travel writing, […]

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Take-Aways

  I don’t know about you, but there are times, even when things generally could be a lot better, I feel closer to my partner. I said partner when I meant Missy, but that would imply that you too felt closer to her too. Maybe some of you do, or would like to as I […]

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