Negotiating (The big sit down)

For the past 20 years or more, negotiation has been a key element in my day job.  I’ve been fortunate enough to negotiate with some really nice people and equally I have dealt with people who you wouldn’t want to meet on a dark night.  Each encounter provided me with a learning experience which will, […]

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What’s the kick?

One of my favourite rituals is having Missy waiting in bed for me with the duvet pulled down to reveal her breasts. She does this every night because I like it.  A half naked woman has something special about her whether she be in bed, in jeans or just in knickers parading around. I looked […]

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Dom and Dommer

I read a post recently on dating alpha males. I should’t have been annoyed by it, as I think I am a very accepting person, however, it did. The author was trying to explain that Dominant men were the best types to date. It was all a little kink/romantic pulp fiction type view point, and […]

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“I’m a Sure Thing” (quote)

Recently, events changed the way I perceive my life.  The daily treadmill of working life stopped for a moment, sufficiently so to throw me off and then continue as if nothing had happened. The wheel turned and  I could only stand and watch.  An observer of modern industry at work in its foulsest form.  I […]

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So you wanna’ be a Dom?

Before we go any further, this is not an attempt to set myself up as guru. I am far from that. I don’t like the term ‘expert’ either in play or business. It sets people up on a pedestal and with a high likelyhood of criticism or failure. I prefer the term ‘skilled’ or ‘highly […]

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Loss of Employment, Dominance and Submission

If you’ve ever lost your job through redundancy, then you’ll probably know where this post is going. If you haven’t experienced it first hand or are ever likely to, second hand redundancy through a partner can be equally as bad. Like an unexpected announcement from a doctor that says your sore throat needs a rectal […]

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My 24 Days Of Christmas in reflection. 

Avid readers of my SubMissy will know that the little helper of Santa has really pulled out the stops for our relationship. Selfless acts x 24 have been a joy to experience and has also given us material to use into 2017 either as a warm up act or as a single piece of pleasure.  It has, […]

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Why D/s? 

I would like to recall the start of the Easter break for our family this year. It was the end of a very busy academic term for my wife and kids, mainly due to college and university applications.  We normally have a blow out on the Friday to mark the start of the holidays with […]

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Following the Crowd

Making the decision to start a D/s lifestyle was not an easy one. Simply put, I had no real understanding of the topic. However, once I picked up the basic principles, it all looked very straight forward….. Obviously that theory soon evaporated leaving more questions than answers. As time wore on I started to feel […]

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Control 24/7?

For the last 20 years, products have come to the market that boast, “You will have greater control.” Be this your bank account, your car, and even how to watch television. The strange this is, there is an undertone that the greater the control you have, the less you have to worry about. One could […]

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