So you wanna’ be a Dom?

Before we go any further, this is not an attempt to set myself up as guru. I am far from that. I don’t like the term ‘expert’ either in play or business. It sets people up on a pedestal and with a high likelyhood of criticism or failure. I prefer the term ‘skilled’ or ‘highly […]

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Loss of Employment, Dominance and Submission

If you’ve ever lost your job through redundancy, then you’ll probably know where this post is going. If you haven’t experienced it first hand or are ever likely to, second hand redundancy through a partner can be equally as bad. Like an unexpected announcement from a doctor that says your sore throat needs a rectal […]

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My 24 Days Of Christmas in reflection. 

Avid readers of my SubMissy will know that the little helper of Santa has really pulled out the stops for our relationship. Selfless acts x 24 have been a joy to experience and has also given us material to use into 2017 either as a warm up act or as a single piece of pleasure.  It has, […]

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Why D/s? 

I would like to recall the start of the Easter break for our family this year. It was the end of a very busy academic term for my wife and kids, mainly due to college and university applications.  We normally have a blow out on the Friday to mark the start of the holidays with […]

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Following the Crowd

Making the decision to start a D/s lifestyle was not an easy one. Simply put, I had no real understanding of the topic. However, once I picked up the basic principles, it all looked very straight forward….. Obviously that theory soon evaporated leaving more questions than answers. As time wore on I started to feel […]

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Control 24/7?

For the last 20 years, products have come to the market that boast, “You will have greater control.” Be this your bank account, your car, and even how to watch television. The strange this is, there is an undertone that the greater the control you have, the less you have to worry about. One could […]

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D/s Relationship and Familes

I have had the privilege to speak to many people in a D\s relationship that has started in the bedroom and grown into a 27/4 dynamic. I appreciate this is not for everyone, as they say, “Your kink is not my kink.” However, there is a common theme that presents itself and that is the […]

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The Start Of My Journey

When entering into any new project whether it be a lifestyle change or hobby, support is often necessary.  In the early stages, having a group or individual that can show you the ropes reduces the chances of making too many mistakes and in turn gives you more confidence. That’s all a bit obvious really isn’t […]

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