Training #Tellmeabout

When the topic of training was decided for #tellmeabout I felt comfortable that it would be a fairly straight forward subject to write about. I was wrong!  I normally write without reading other’s entries, however, leaving it so late I fell into the trap of reading all the posts before getting to mine; this made […]

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Resets – #Tellmeabout

In a dark corner of warehouse there is probably is a man desperately trying to make a reset button.  His vision is that when you hit it, all previous misdemeanours are evaporated without discussion and everything starts again, like a new day.  But this man, whilst being a visionary, is ironically short-sighted.  If such a […]

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Scenes – #Tellmeabout

The word ‘scene’ in a D/s context is pretty well chosen when you consider one of the general definitions; ‘a sequence of continuous action in a play, film, opera, or book.’ I suppose to some extent sexual play is an opera, film, book or play; lots of drama, slightly voyeuristic from a Dom’s perspective, staged […]

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TRUST

I have placed my trust a great many people over the years.  Some I have trusted with my life; on the end of a rope, behind the wheel of a car, on the back of a motorbike and even on the end of gun. Others I have trusted to do what is right morally to […]

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SEXY PICTURES

Inspired by my lovely wife’s post on the subject of Sexy Pictures, I knew just leaving a comment was not going to be enough.  Without reading back through things long forgotten on my blog, I had to post something (or repeat) on one of my favourite topics.  The only downside I can see about this […]

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All Because a Lady Loves…….

I had, what I thought, was an interesting conversation with missy the other day.  It related to maintaining a connection and the type of play we engage in.  Specifically, how can I get missy’s head in a submissive mindset?  Now some of you may be in a place where getting into that mindset is instantaneous […]

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10TH Century Spanking

SPANKING

I can’t remember the first time I formerly spanked missy.  I don’t mean formally as in sending an invitation with an RSVP, I meant more spanking with an emphasis on the spank itself.  However it started, it became a favourite with the two of us and a great warm up for other activities. From my […]

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Climb Every Mountain

Our D/s journey has been by and large one of discovery, both personal and as a team. It hasn’t all been about the power exchange and sexual exploration, there’s a lot more to it.  We have both bought baggage to our second-time-around marriage and without D/s we may not have addressed it in such an […]

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‘The Next Train Leaving Platform 4 is…’

It is no secret that missy and I have discovered the joint thrill of taking photographs of her, and occassionaly the two of us together.  When we first started out in our relationship I sometimes introduced a camera to capture our early encounters, however, they were our pictures and saved just for us.  That was […]

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Glass Half Full or Empty?

It’s been sometime since I wrote something personal, for which I really have no excuse other than not having the desire to it.  This morning though is different.  I came down to the kitchen to be welcomed by our puppy in the usual ‘I’ve not seen your for years’ type excitement and a big smile […]

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