Why?

Why would you?

“Why would you like to watch me suck anothes man’s cock? Missy asked me the other day.  This wasn’t some random question she decided to throw in, we had been having a discussion about some kinky thing and my reaction must have sparked it.  I responded without really thinking and said, “I would get off […]

Continue reading
10TH Century Spanking

SPANKING

I can’t remember the first time I formerly spanked missy.  I don’t mean formally as in sending an invitation with an RSVP, I meant more spanking with an emphasis on the spank itself.  However it started, it became a favourite with the two of us and a great warm up for other activities. From my […]

Continue reading

Climb Every Mountain

Our D/s journey has been by and large one of discovery, both personal and as a team. It hasn’t all been about the power exchange and sexual exploration, there’s a lot more to it.  We have both bought baggage to our second-time-around marriage and without D/s we may not have addressed it in such an […]

Continue reading

Glass Half Full or Empty?

It’s been sometime since I wrote something personal, for which I really have no excuse other than not having the desire to it.  This morning though is different.  I came down to the kitchen to be welcomed by our puppy in the usual ‘I’ve not seen your for years’ type excitement and a big smile […]

Continue reading

Always Watching

I’ve not posted in sometime. A literary desert as it were. Most of the time inspiration is readily available, and usually because I have something to say about it. I’ve just not had the inertia for it, until today that is!  No, it’s not a rant, although, since buying a dog and walking her, I […]

Continue reading

It’s Okay To Be Not-Normal

There’s always chat about vanilla and non-vanilla activity in a D/s relationship.  They are only words that help people understand what’s going on at the time, a bit like ‘You Are Here’ on a laminated tourist map. I’m sure you have your own thoughts on such terms and whether you like them or not.  I […]

Continue reading

Is anyone there?

Do you use your blog to communicate to your partner? Don’t worry, this isn’t a deep and meaningful post full of dramatic skylines and prosaic monologue!  I’m just curious if you are in a similar position. Missy and I have the ability to communicate quite well  (although there’s always room for improvement) and not all […]

Continue reading

No Typical Conversation

I have often said that D/s can provide people with a level of openness that is safe and protected.  The relationship is based on trust, trust to expose your heart and soul without accusation or retribution.  A D/s relationship is the grown up version of the average relationship I like to think.  It isn’t just […]

Continue reading

Contagion

Reflecting on the past couple of months activities, I realised the value of being with people who are like-minded.  Ignoring a working environment for a moment, unless you are engaged in the sex industry in one form or another, its the kinky and sexual side I refer to. As you are aware, missy and I […]

Continue reading