Climb Every Mountain

Our D/s journey has been by and large one of discovery, both personal and as a team. It hasn’t all been about the power exchange and sexual exploration, there’s a lot more to it.  We have both bought baggage to our second-time-around marriage and without D/s we may not have addressed it in such an […]

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‘The Next Train Leaving Platform 4 is…’

It is no secret that missy and I have discovered the joint thrill of taking photographs of her, and occassionaly the two of us together.  When we first started out in our relationship I sometimes introduced a camera to capture our early encounters, however, they were our pictures and saved just for us.  That was […]

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KinkFest UK 2018 – Reflection

I’ve only just walked through the door after a very draining seven hour drive home through the rain. Well, just walked through, is a mild exaggeration, nachos and wine may have passed my lips first! So yes, we have been away to KinkFest, our first visit to an event focussed on many aspects of kinkery. […]

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Glass Half Full or Empty?

It’s been sometime since I wrote something personal, for which I really have no excuse other than not having the desire to it.  This morning though is different.  I came down to the kitchen to be welcomed by our puppy in the usual ‘I’ve not seen your for years’ type excitement and a big smile […]

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Always Watching

I’ve not posted in sometime. A literary desert as it were. Most of the time inspiration is readily available, and usually because I have something to say about it. I’ve just not had the inertia for it, until today that is!  No, it’s not a rant, although, since buying a dog and walking her, I […]

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It’s Okay To Be Not-Normal

There’s always chat about vanilla and non-vanilla activity in a D/s relationship.  They are only words that help people understand what’s going on at the time, a bit like ‘You Are Here’ on a laminated tourist map. I’m sure you have your own thoughts on such terms and whether you like them or not.  I […]

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Is anyone there?

Do you use your blog to communicate to your partner? Don’t worry, this isn’t a deep and meaningful post full of dramatic skylines and prosaic monologue!  I’m just curious if you are in a similar position. Missy and I have the ability to communicate quite well  (although there’s always room for improvement) and not all […]

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Dare to Bear – #FT4Friday

I have an odd relationship with nudity in that I love to be naked, and yet I don’t very much like what I see in reflection.  I know that’s not unusual, many people would prefer if certain things about them were different.  For me, I try and look beyond my own vanity and enjoy the […]

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No Typical Conversation

I have often said that D/s can provide people with a level of openness that is safe and protected.  The relationship is based on trust, trust to expose your heart and soul without accusation or retribution.  A D/s relationship is the grown up version of the average relationship I like to think.  It isn’t just […]

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Contagion

Reflecting on the past couple of months activities, I realised the value of being with people who are like-minded.  Ignoring a working environment for a moment, unless you are engaged in the sex industry in one form or another, its the kinky and sexual side I refer to. As you are aware, missy and I […]

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