In a dark corner of warehouse there is probably is a man desperately trying to make a reset button. His vision is that when you hit it, all previous misdemeanours are evaporated without discussion and everything starts again, like a new day. But this man, whilst being a visionary, is ironically short-sighted. If such a […]
The word ‘scene’ in a D/s context is pretty well chosen when you consider one of the general definitions; ‘a sequence of continuous action in a play, film, opera, or book.’ I suppose to some extent sexual play is an opera, film, book or play; lots of drama, slightly voyeuristic from a Dom’s perspective, staged […]
I know that I will be judged by some who read this, and may even cause offence to those who disagree with me. They are some of the inherent outcomes from free speech which I have written about before. However, this is supposed to be a bit of fun, and therefore I will open the […]
The Food for Thought Friday topic this week is LANDMARKS. What, if any, have been your particular landmarks, either in relation to your blog or your wider life? Do you have any future goals/landmarks you want to achieve? What are they? This is the 100th F4TF prompt and I really wanted to take part, firstly because it […]
I have placed my trust a great many people over the years. Some I have trusted with my life; on the end of a rope, behind the wheel of a car, on the back of a motorbike and even on the end of gun. Others I have trusted to do what is right morally to […]
Inspired by my lovely wife’s post on the subject of Sexy Pictures, I knew just leaving a comment was not going to be enough. Without reading back through things long forgotten on my blog, I had to post something (or repeat) on one of my favourite topics. The only downside I can see about this […]
I had, what I thought, was an interesting conversation with missy the other day. It related to maintaining a connection and the type of play we engage in. Specifically, how can I get missy’s head in a submissive mindset? Now some of you may be in a place where getting into that mindset is instantaneous […]
It didn’t take long for our kink to become the norm. The gloves were off, well the latex ones were one, but you get the metaphor I’m sure! We started to spend money on toys, lots of toys, lots of crappy toys and some good ones. We made mistakes, got things right and then wrong […]
I have spent a lot of time travelling long distances with a colleague who has lots of opinions he likes to share with me. Quite often he has asked me my thoughts are on his pearls of wisdom, and occasionally I will offer one; and sometimes I tell him that I don’t have enough knowledge […]
“Write a letter to your first love…or to your younger self at that time. What did you take away from that relationship? What do you remember? Are your memories happy, sad…bittersweet? How did you grow?” (I wrote this for Bridget Delany’s #EroticJournalChallenge and never finished it – but I have now!) Don’t throw this away, […]