Nudity

Nudity, nudity, nudity.  Oh boy. I just love it and despite not having the physique of a 20 year old in my prime, I like being nude. I like other people being nude too, but more than any other, I love missy being nude. From last thing at night to first thing in the morning […]

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Voyeurism and Me

I used to have a job many years ago that entailed me searching people’s found luggage (lost in the first place somewhere in the world) to find an owner. All manner of tricks and tools were at my disposal to locate the owner. Clean clothes meant they were travelling out, dirty clothes meant coming home; […]

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Labels

“It ain’t what they call you, it’s what you answer to.” ― W.C. Fields. … I can’t shake the label that I have been tagged with.  ‘Dominant’ seems to be the word that people in the BDSM world relate to give them a clearer understanding of where you position yourself in a relationship, be it […]

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Photography and Our D/s

I do like a really sexy picture.  From my younger days of soft porn in magazines to my own creations with various cameras, they are just little works of art. I can’t actually remember the conversation regarding the taking of pictures, and if I’m honest I don’t think there was one.  I have photos that […]

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Being A Grown-Up

I was listening to a recent podcast by the film maker and journalist Louis Theroux this week. If you haven’t heard his small collection of ‘Grounded‘ interviews, I recommend them to fill 30 minutes of a dog walk or exercise bike. In his interview with Jon Ronson, of similar fame, they stumbled upon the topic […]

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Pleasure

Lock down has produced a number of challenges for everyone, it’s a sliding scale.  Each day it becomes more normal, things that bothered you before now don’t, and things that didn’t now do, albeit temporarily. I admit that I find the slow pace of life nice. The lack of cars, people and general background noise […]

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Our Good Life

For those of you not familiar with the 1970’s UK TV show, ‘The Good Life‘ I will give you a very quick summary. Tom and Barbara Good live in the suburbs of London in a large detached house next door to Gerry and Margot Leadbetter. The Goods decide to become self sufficient and turn their […]

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Codependency

I somewhat feel like I have written about this topic many times, however, I know it is more likely I have played it in my head over and over again. I had an urge to start at the beginning, however, I know you are busy and really just need a nice short post to get […]

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Love Letter (regret, only for not posting last week!)

I remember the very first day I met you.  To the backdrop of noisy children playing Brazilian football I engaged in conversation with your younger sister who was also attending the session with her son. You sat down to my right and your, unbeknown to me, sister on my left. She introduced you to me […]

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Invitation Only

The day had been pretty busy, what with the travelling the night before and then the full-on day listening to speaker’s presentations and then delivering one of their own.  Having managed to book somewhere in advance for food with an early table, it was back to the hotel for a quick fuck, shower and change […]

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