Dom Drop

In a recent chat event on the SWC many subs were interested to hear about Dom Drop, what that felt like for a Dom and what caused it.  I was asked to write something on the subject, so here goes! Before I touch on my own personal experience, I decided to do a little research […]

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Eroticon Meet & Greet London 2018

NAME (and Twitter if you have one) HisLordship  @HisLordshipuk What are you most looking forward to about Eroticon 2018? The party bags containing Rolex watches, keys to sports cars and vouchers for holidays in the Maldvies. If I have the wrong event, then I will be happy meeting ‘real’ people with similar interests to myself […]

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What’s the plan Stan?

In my first post of the year I mentioned that I would be spending more time planning, and that I felt it was a key component of a D/s relationship, or any relationship for that matter!  I have often heard that even a well constructed plan never survives first contact with enemy, and in principle […]

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Cause and Effect

I finally managed to get an hour of Missy’s time alone on Saturday morning before any of the kids got out of bed.  We were up early for a Sunday and had wiggle room to get some D/s(ing) in. “I would really like fuck you,” I said, “but I think we should talk instead, we […]

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Bumber Command

I suppose,  with each strike of my hand,  it is not dissimilar to a series of small explosions going through my sub’s brain.  My hand lands with a sharp slap and the energy is released through a wave of ripples travelling across her skin.  I wonder if the ripples travel up her spine to her […]

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La La Land

I’ve been doing this D/s thing long enough to meet a great number of people, most on line, a few face to face on camera and, heavens forbid, some even in person! I like meeting new people, getting to know them, taking advice, sharing opinions and generally enjoying myself. I said in my previous post […]

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When your’re weary, feeling down….

I’m trying to avoid using a song’s lyrics as a frame for my post, however, Life is a Roller Coaster.  In a number of previous posts I have a alluded to the fact our lives have very much been on the slow up hill drag with regard to permanent employment for me and with no […]

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In The Beginning

I don’t think I have ever taken the time to reflect on the opening days and weeks of my life in a D/s relationship. I may have dabbled a toe, but never have I written something for a person about to start a D/s lifestyle would find helpful.  You should know that I am overly […]

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‘Standards, Traditions and Values’

‘Standards, Traditions and Values’ was a publication printed by the British Army many years ago for all of its members. Whether you were a ranking solider or an officer, it was aimed, literally, at you! Selfless commitment, Courage, Discipline, Integrity, Loyalty and Respect for Others are listed in great detail as to how they are […]

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Not A Mind Reader

This holiday Missy and I have had time to reflect on a broad spectrum of our relationship and family life. This is a circular event as holidays provide time to be closer, and occasionally with less domestic distractions. Today Missy asked me, “What do you get out of having a scene?”  I thought the answer […]

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