On Valentine’s Day, I was treated to an unexpected show of old-fashioned vanilla affection. To clarify, the affection show did not follow any D/s based rules in terms of asking permission. Some may see this as topping from the bottom, or some other label that attempts restricts this type of behaviour in a long-term marriage. […]
Why does the word ‘Expectation’ have such negative connotations? It is all, ‘Have low expectations and you’ll never be disappointed’ or ‘I find my life better with low expectations.’ The internet is awash with hundreds of such statements. All I can say is there must be a lot people out there aiming low or with […]
Having spent the best part of 2020 in disruption, mainly due to Covid, we both felt that 2021 should not be a repeat year. After all, things can only get better, right? In all seriousness, missy and I looked at what 2021 might look like for us. Where might kids be in terms of study […]
Standing, now, in the middle of the apartment living area, she felt she couldn’t remember clearly the last 30 minutes. They were important, those lost minutes, and yet it really didn’t matter in the greater scheme of things how she got here, just why. The why was clear to her; he said he wanted it […]
When the topic of training was decided for #tellmeabout I felt comfortable that it would be a fairly straight forward subject to write about. I was wrong! I normally write without reading other’s entries, however, leaving it so late I fell into the trap of reading all the posts before getting to mine; this made […]
In a dark corner of warehouse there is probably is a man desperately trying to make a reset button. His vision is that when you hit it, all previous misdemeanours are evaporated without discussion and everything starts again, like a new day. But this man, whilst being a visionary, is ironically short-sighted. If such a […]
The word ‘scene’ in a D/s context is pretty well chosen when you consider one of the general definitions; ‘a sequence of continuous action in a play, film, opera, or book.’ I suppose to some extent sexual play is an opera, film, book or play; lots of drama, slightly voyeuristic from a Dom’s perspective, staged […]
I have placed my trust a great many people over the years. Some I have trusted with my life; on the end of a rope, behind the wheel of a car, on the back of a motorbike and even on the end of gun. Others I have trusted to do what is right morally to […]
Inspired by my lovely wife’s post on the subject of Sexy Pictures, I knew just leaving a comment was not going to be enough. Without reading back through things long forgotten on my blog, I had to post something (or repeat) on one of my favourite topics. The only downside I can see about this […]
I had, what I thought, was an interesting conversation with missy the other day. It related to maintaining a connection and the type of play we engage in. Specifically, how can I get missy’s head in a submissive mindset? Now some of you may be in a place where getting into that mindset is instantaneous […]