Desire

Standing, now, in the middle of the apartment living area, she felt she couldn’t remember clearly the last 30 minutes.  They were important, those lost minutes, and yet it really didn’t matter in the greater scheme of things how she got here, just why.  The why was clear to her; he said he wanted it […]

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Training #Tellmeabout

When the topic of training was decided for #tellmeabout I felt comfortable that it would be a fairly straight forward subject to write about. I was wrong!  I normally write without reading other’s entries, however, leaving it so late I fell into the trap of reading all the posts before getting to mine; this made […]

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Resets – #Tellmeabout

In a dark corner of warehouse there is probably is a man desperately trying to make a reset button.  His vision is that when you hit it, all previous misdemeanours are evaporated without discussion and everything starts again, like a new day.  But this man, whilst being a visionary, is ironically short-sighted.  If such a […]

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Scenes – #Tellmeabout

The word ‘scene’ in a D/s context is pretty well chosen when you consider one of the general definitions; ‘a sequence of continuous action in a play, film, opera, or book.’ I suppose to some extent sexual play is an opera, film, book or play; lots of drama, slightly voyeuristic from a Dom’s perspective, staged […]

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TRUST

I have placed my trust a great many people over the years.  Some I have trusted with my life; on the end of a rope, behind the wheel of a car, on the back of a motorbike and even on the end of gun. Others I have trusted to do what is right morally to […]

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SEXY PICTURES

Inspired by my lovely wife’s post on the subject of Sexy Pictures, I knew just leaving a comment was not going to be enough.  Without reading back through things long forgotten on my blog, I had to post something (or repeat) on one of my favourite topics.  The only downside I can see about this […]

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All Because a Lady Loves…….

I had, what I thought, was an interesting conversation with missy the other day.  It related to maintaining a connection and the type of play we engage in.  Specifically, how can I get missy’s head in a submissive mindset?  Now some of you may be in a place where getting into that mindset is instantaneous […]

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10TH Century Spanking

SPANKING

I can’t remember the first time I formerly spanked missy.  I don’t mean formally as in sending an invitation with an RSVP, I meant more spanking with an emphasis on the spank itself.  However it started, it became a favourite with the two of us and a great warm up for other activities. From my […]

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Climb Every Mountain

Our D/s journey has been by and large one of discovery, both personal and as a team. It hasn’t all been about the power exchange and sexual exploration, there’s a lot more to it.  We have both bought baggage to our second-time-around marriage and without D/s we may not have addressed it in such an […]

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‘The Next Train Leaving Platform 4 is…’

It is no secret that missy and I have discovered the joint thrill of taking photographs of her, and occassionaly the two of us together.  When we first started out in our relationship I sometimes introduced a camera to capture our early encounters, however, they were our pictures and saved just for us.  That was […]

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