Intimacy Shared

The thing, if you care to call it a thing, that tips the scales in a relationship is when you become intimate. That kiss that makes you feel like you are drowning in the other person, or that touch where you have never touched before, or maybe the moment you are completely naked both physically […]

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Oral Sex

It’s quite intimate isn’t it, oral sex?  I mean, you’re rummaging around with your face in areas of the body that 90% of the time are activities of bodily waste.  You didn’t need reminding of that? Well, I think it’s important on a hygiene level you need to get that out of the way first.  […]

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Limits and Boundaries-Revisited

Yes, I know, this is a very quick turn around for a revisit post, almost 48 hours, however, I can assure you it is for a good reason.  What did I miss from the last post you may wonder? He seems to have covered all the bases you may have possibly said!  Alas, no, not […]

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Limits and Boundaries

I guess, on reflection, that I have always seen Limits being the end of something, or the maximum of an action.  ‘End of city limits’ as seen in American movies as the bandit drives over the border, or the test pilot who looks at the speed dials before the glass cracks under pressure.  Like most […]

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Nudity

Nudity, nudity, nudity.  Oh boy. I just love it and despite not having the physique of a 20 year old in my prime, I like being nude. I like other people being nude too, but more than any other, I love missy being nude. From last thing at night to first thing in the morning […]

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Voyeurism and Me

I used to have a job many years ago that entailed me searching people’s found luggage (lost in the first place somewhere in the world) to find an owner. All manner of tricks and tools were at my disposal to locate the owner. Clean clothes meant they were travelling out, dirty clothes meant coming home; […]

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Labels

“It ain’t what they call you, it’s what you answer to.” ― W.C. Fields. … I can’t shake the label that I have been tagged with.  ‘Dominant’ seems to be the word that people in the BDSM world relate to give them a clearer understanding of where you position yourself in a relationship, be it […]

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Photography and Our D/s

I do like a really sexy picture.  From my younger days of soft porn in magazines to my own creations with various cameras, they are just little works of art. I can’t actually remember the conversation regarding the taking of pictures, and if I’m honest I don’t think there was one.  I have photos that […]

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Being A Grown-Up

I was listening to a recent podcast by the film maker and journalist Louis Theroux this week. If you haven’t heard his small collection of ‘Grounded‘ interviews, I recommend them to fill 30 minutes of a dog walk or exercise bike. In his interview with Jon Ronson, of similar fame, they stumbled upon the topic […]

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Pleasure

Lock down has produced a number of challenges for everyone, it’s a sliding scale.  Each day it becomes more normal, things that bothered you before now don’t, and things that didn’t now do, albeit temporarily. I admit that I find the slow pace of life nice. The lack of cars, people and general background noise […]

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