On Valentine’s Day, I was treated to an unexpected show of old-fashioned vanilla affection. To clarify, the affection show did not follow any D/s based rules in terms of asking permission. Some may see this as topping from the bottom, or some other label that attempts restricts this type of behaviour in a long-term marriage. […]
Very recently missy and I were discussing the reasons why she wrote for her blog. As you can imagine, there are quite a few, one being that she wanted to provide me with feedback on our relationship. Of course, missy could articulate that verbally when she wants too, however, anyone who reads missy’s blog with […]
Missy and I had our usual weekend discussion surrounding all things D/s, us and our writing. Missy has been working on a revised project on Submissive Reflection, which I should let you know she has an Olympic Gold Medal for when it comes to self evaluation! I do not hold any such medals, however, missy […]
Oh boy, it’s 2022 and I’m not sure how I got here, or more to the point, what I did with 2020 and 2021! I don’t think it’s an age thing, although that is a contributing factor I’m sure. The mechanisms that we have had to follow during the pandemic made my world smaller and […]
The last time I posted anything with consistency was July of this year. After that I have not had the inspiration, desire or motivation to post anything. If you can’t write anything interesting, then why write at all? I should point out that I do have a stupid amount of draft posts that only have […]
I believe that I am the proud owner of a MILF. The lady in question would argue the point I’m sure, however, I have sufficient evidence, from feed back, that she is mistaken; A ‘Mistaken I’d Like Fuck,’ if you will. The very first day I met missy she went into my MILF vault. She […]
Why does the word ‘Expectation’ have such negative connotations? It is all, ‘Have low expectations and you’ll never be disappointed’ or ‘I find my life better with low expectations.’ The internet is awash with hundreds of such statements. All I can say is there must be a lot people out there aiming low or with […]
Dominant headspace. What allows me to access my Dominant headspace? What does it feel like when I am in this space and how does it differ to the way that I think and feel at other times? Supporting people to try and find their headspace is much easier that finding my own. Telling people […]
Having spent the best part of 2020 in disruption, mainly due to Covid, we both felt that 2021 should not be a repeat year. After all, things can only get better, right? In all seriousness, missy and I looked at what 2021 might look like for us. Where might kids be in terms of study […]
Standing, now, in the middle of the apartment living area, she felt she couldn’t remember clearly the last 30 minutes. They were important, those lost minutes, and yet it really didn’t matter in the greater scheme of things how she got here, just why. The why was clear to her; he said he wanted it […]