Photography and Our D/s

I do like a really sexy picture.  From my younger days of soft porn in magazines to my own creations with various cameras, they are just little works of art. I can’t actually remember the conversation regarding the taking of pictures, and if I’m honest I don’t think there was one.  I have photos that […]

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Being A Grown-Up

I was listening to a recent podcast by the film maker and journalist Louis Theroux this week. If you haven’t heard his small collection of ‘Grounded‘ interviews, I recommend them to fill 30 minutes of a dog walk or exercise bike. In his interview with Jon Ronson, of similar fame, they stumbled upon the topic […]

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Pleasure

Lock down has produced a number of challenges for everyone, it’s a sliding scale.  Each day it becomes more normal, things that bothered you before now don’t, and things that didn’t now do, albeit temporarily. I admit that I find the slow pace of life nice. The lack of cars, people and general background noise […]

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Our Good Life

For those of you not familiar with the 1970’s UK TV show, ‘The Good Life‘ I will give you a very quick summary. Tom and Barbara Good live in the suburbs of London in a large detached house next door to Gerry and Margot Leadbetter. The Goods decide to become self sufficient and turn their […]

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Codependency

I somewhat feel like I have written about this topic many times, however, I know it is more likely I have played it in my head over and over again. I had an urge to start at the beginning, however, I know you are busy and really just need a nice short post to get […]

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Love Letter (regret, only for not posting last week!)

I remember the very first day I met you.  To the backdrop of noisy children playing Brazilian football I engaged in conversation with your younger sister who was also attending the session with her son. You sat down to my right and your, unbeknown to me, sister on my left. She introduced you to me […]

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Invitation Only

The day had been pretty busy, what with the travelling the night before and then the full-on day listening to speaker’s presentations and then delivering one of their own.  Having managed to book somewhere in advance for food with an early table, it was back to the hotel for a quick fuck, shower and change […]

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Romance

An odd thing happened this evening.  I typed a post for the ‘Romance’ topic, and having asked missy what she thought, her response was interesting.  It transpired that I had written the complete opposite to her.  I had focused on my lack of romance and blamed it on D/s making me a bit too serious, […]

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Objectification

The whole concept of objectification was a mental wrestling match for me.  Having just got my head around the theory of D/s some 8 years ago, objectification brought a whole new layer. Imagine if you will entering into a discussion where your wife confesses a desire whereby she wants, but won’t openly accept, that she […]

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Pain

Даже боль имеет свою радость. (Russian Proverb) Even pain has its joy, is so very true.  This saying is old and has travelled well; unless of course you are remembering the Ukrainian 2007 entry in the Eurovision Song Contest. (puts fingers in ears) However, aside from the chemical formulae that is often banded about to […]

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