Expectations

Why does the word ‘Expectation’ have such negative connotations?  It is all, ‘Have low expectations and you’ll never be disappointed’ or ‘I find my life better with low expectations.’  The internet is awash with hundreds of such statements. All I can say is there must be a lot people out there aiming low or with […]

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Headspace – Tell Me About Topic

  Dominant headspace. What allows me to access my Dominant headspace? What does it feel like when I am in this space and how does it differ to the way that I think and feel at other times?  Supporting people to try and find their headspace is much easier that finding my own. Telling people […]

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Goals

Having spent the best part of 2020 in disruption, mainly due to Covid, we both felt that 2021 should not be a repeat year. After all, things can only get better, right? In all seriousness, missy and I looked at what 2021 might look like for us. Where might kids be in terms of study […]

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Desire

Standing, now, in the middle of the apartment living area, she felt she couldn’t remember clearly the last 30 minutes.  They were important, those lost minutes, and yet it really didn’t matter in the greater scheme of things how she got here, just why.  The why was clear to her; he said he wanted it […]

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Flogging

Despite the fact we don’t do a great deal of flogging, I do enjoy it.  I would probably say that I have never really executed a flogging scene, or a scene that involved much flogging, depending on your point of view. My initial attraction to flogging was the look of them, and of the smell.  […]

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Intimacy Shared

The thing, if you care to call it a thing, that tips the scales in a relationship is when you become intimate. That kiss that makes you feel like you are drowning in the other person, or that touch where you have never touched before, or maybe the moment you are completely naked both physically […]

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Oral Sex

It’s quite intimate isn’t it, oral sex?  I mean, you’re rummaging around with your face in areas of the body that 90% of the time are activities of bodily waste.  You didn’t need reminding of that? Well, I think it’s important on a hygiene level you need to get that out of the way first.  […]

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Limits and Boundaries-Revisited

Yes, I know, this is a very quick turn around for a revisit post, almost 48 hours, however, I can assure you it is for a good reason.  What did I miss from the last post you may wonder? He seems to have covered all the bases you may have possibly said!  Alas, no, not […]

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Limits and Boundaries

I guess, on reflection, that I have always seen Limits being the end of something, or the maximum of an action.  ‘End of city limits’ as seen in American movies as the bandit drives over the border, or the test pilot who looks at the speed dials before the glass cracks under pressure.  Like most […]

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Nudity

Nudity, nudity, nudity.  Oh boy. I just love it and despite not having the physique of a 20 year old in my prime, I like being nude. I like other people being nude too, but more than any other, I love missy being nude. From last thing at night to first thing in the morning […]

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