Dial 999

I was originally going to post this under the recent mental health meme for SB4MH, however, a collaboration post with May More placed this in the drafts box. The adaptation is close to me and therefore I felt it should see light. “Fire – I need to report, an incident.” That’s how the day ended, […]

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Codependency

I somewhat feel like I have written about this topic many times, however, I know it is more likely I have played it in my head over and over again. I had an urge to start at the beginning, however, I know you are busy and really just need a nice short post to get […]

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Love Letter (regret, only for not posting last week!)

I remember the very first day I met you.  To the backdrop of noisy children playing Brazilian football I engaged in conversation with your younger sister who was also attending the session with her son. You sat down to my right and your, unbeknown to me, sister on my left. She introduced you to me […]

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Invitation Only

The day had been pretty busy, what with the travelling the night before and then the full-on day listening to speaker’s presentations and then delivering one of their own.  Having managed to book somewhere in advance for food with an early table, it was back to the hotel for a quick fuck, shower and change […]

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Romance

An odd thing happened this evening.  I typed a post for the ‘Romance’ topic, and having asked missy what she thought, her response was interesting.  It transpired that I had written the complete opposite to her.  I had focused on my lack of romance and blamed it on D/s making me a bit too serious, […]

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Objectification

The whole concept of objectification was a mental wrestling match for me.  Having just got my head around the theory of D/s some 8 years ago, objectification brought a whole new layer. Imagine if you will entering into a discussion where your wife confesses a desire whereby she wants, but won’t openly accept, that she […]

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Eating, from the outside

Missy recently posted a very open and honest piece on her relationship with food over the years.  To me there wasn’t any surprises contained in the layer cake of paragraphs, however, I was surprised when missy suggested I write something for the mental health meme from the perspective of someone with a partner who has […]

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Smut Marathon 2020

I’ve entered Smut Marathon 2020. There, I’ve said it, in open forum.  I have to admit that I slightly apprehensive about the whole thing. Where will I find the time?  How the hell am I going to find the creativity to write something that inspires?  Obviously I don’t want to be presenting some piece of […]

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Pain

Даже боль имеет свою радость. (Russian Proverb) Even pain has its joy, is so very true.  This saying is old and has travelled well; unless of course you are remembering the Ukrainian 2007 entry in the Eurovision Song Contest. (puts fingers in ears) However, aside from the chemical formulae that is often banded about to […]

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Ringing the Changes

If you subscribe to my blog you know that I don’t produce masses of work.  I write when I feel like writing, sometimes weeks pass until I get that worm in my head.  The other issue is that I also have The SafeworD/s Club site that needs material and attention.  I haven’t been able to […]

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