Memories in Suspension

Granny was born in 1901, or thereabouts, according to Roz’s mother. It seemed such a long time ago, and her granny had died when she was 7 years of age. She still had a couple of pictures of the two of them; one was on a balcony in her arms both smiling at the camera […]

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Voyeurism and Me

I used to have a job many years ago that entailed me searching people’s found luggage (lost in the first place somewhere in the world) to find an owner. All manner of tricks and tools were at my disposal to locate the owner. Clean clothes meant they were travelling out, dirty clothes meant coming home; […]

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Labels

“It ain’t what they call you, it’s what you answer to.” ― W.C. Fields. … I can’t shake the label that I have been tagged with.  ‘Dominant’ seems to be the word that people in the BDSM world relate to give them a clearer understanding of where you position yourself in a relationship, be it […]

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Review – Tongue Mermaid Remote Sex Toy

The Mermaid Distributed by Bestvibe https://www.bestvibe.com First impressions We loved the colour! That may sound a bit basic, however, a number of sex toys we have used over the years have had quite deep vivid colours that start to fade in odd areas and lose that look of being clean. It’s perception more than anything […]

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Photography and Our D/s

I do like a really sexy picture.  From my younger days of soft porn in magazines to my own creations with various cameras, they are just little works of art. I can’t actually remember the conversation regarding the taking of pictures, and if I’m honest I don’t think there was one.  I have photos that […]

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Fashion and Music

I was born in the latter half of the 1960’s and therefore missed the boom years of the sexual revolution and the ever decreasing skirt lengths.  My  parents were trendy and in their mid-twenties by the time I arrived, and like them I was dressed with the fashion.  As I travelled through primary school I […]

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Forgiveness

Without forgiveness life is governed by an endless cycle of resentment and retaliation. — Roberto Assagioli Forgiveness must take a huge amount of mental energy to process.  I see people on television who have had their children taken from them, and occasionally, when it transpires a dark deed has been committed and the perpetrator apprehended, […]

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Being A Grown-Up

I was listening to a recent podcast by the film maker and journalist Louis Theroux this week. If you haven’t heard his small collection of ‘Grounded‘ interviews, I recommend them to fill 30 minutes of a dog walk or exercise bike. In his interview with Jon Ronson, of similar fame, they stumbled upon the topic […]

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Rope Gag Exercise

I like rope.  Sounds a bit stupid when I say it like that, but it’s true.  From Soap-on-a-Rope at Christmas in the 1970s, to tug-of-war in the 1980s, climbing and rappelling in the 1990s and tying up and securing my wife in the 2000s, rope just has a feel about it. We have previously.   […]

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