Pubes (A pointless beat round the bush)

I know the title is a bit unusual from my normal writing, however, I thought I would branch out! Aside from anything the word Pubes makes me smile. I’m not sure if it’s the word, the connotations or just simply me being childish….pfnarrr. I enjoy looking at naked photographs of women across the decades, the […]

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Not A Mind Reader

This holiday Missy and I have had time to reflect on a broad spectrum of our relationship and family life. This is a circular event as holidays provide time to be closer, and occasionally with less domestic distractions. Today Missy asked me, “What do you get out of having a scene?”  I thought the answer […]

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There She Blows!

The Blue Whale could be the largest example of Dominance and Submission on the planet. What is he talking about now you may think? Obviously there is no direct connection, however, I read an article by the BBC this week in the changes being made to the Hintze Hall at the Natural History Museum in London. […]

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Turning of the Screw..

Last night we abandoned our older teenage children to socialise downstairs and retired to the safety of our bedroom. I had given Missy a ‘warning order’ that we would playing that evening and trying out our recently arrived glass corkscrew.  For those of you who partake in the ‘occassionanal’ play, diving straight in cold is […]

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The Spanked Donkey

The noise from the town’s only saloon could be heard deep into the blackness of the night. Small mammals twitched and scuttled away to their holes when a gun shot rang out or a cheer went up from its drunken occupants. Sound travels a long way in the desert at night.  He sat on his horse soaking […]

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Just own it.

For the masochists amongst you (yes you know who you are) that follow both my and Missy’s site, you will pick up on an overlap of our lives in our writing. Missy recently wrote about us having a discussion to establish our dynamic further by understanding our perspectives on certain issues; After all, we are evolving […]

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Nudge, Nudge, Wink, Wink

I decided to record this post on my phone whilst attempting to paint the window frame in our bedroom. I was thinking I would be clever and try to paint and talk at the same time, although I found it rather difficult to concentrate on two things at once, or maybe that’s just a man […]

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Spot the Sub

If any of you have worked in an environment that draws a steady flow of people, it is likely that you share the same voyeuristic past time of people watching.  I worked in a major airport for many years, and to pass the time when not only engaged in face to face combat with angry […]

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The SafeworD/s Club is Open! 

Our new site, The SafeworD/s Club, is now open for business so please come along, register and have a look around.We would love you to join us for our opening night on Friday 16th June from 8pm until 8am (British Summer Time). We hope to see you there. HisLordship and missy

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Have you heard? 

One of the major drawbacks of living in a small community is access to like minded people, especially if your mindset is somewhat alternative. We do have groups in a nearby city, however, we have come up with more negatives than positives to getting involved, at the moment. The internet, however, has given us a […]

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