Pictures of You

Body image is one of the areas that requires training for my Missy. This blog has reminded me of the need to provide greater support to get her to a better place where we can all enjoy shared images of her one day 🙂

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Control 24/7?

For the last 20 years, products have come to the market that boast, “You will have greater control.” Be this your bank account, your car, and even how to watch television. The strange this is, there is an undertone that the greater the control you have, the less you have to worry about. One could […]

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It’s Not Just The Kink

It is fair to say that D/s is a personal thing between two people and is defined by both the dynamic of the lifestyle and their relationship. Nothing more can be more personal than the trust placed in one another to inflict both pleasure and pain. However, it’s not all about pleasure and pain is […]

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D/s Relationship and Familes

I have had the privilege to speak to many people in a D\s relationship that has started in the bedroom and grown into a 27/4 dynamic. I appreciate this is not for everyone, as they say, “Your kink is not my kink.” However, there is a common theme that presents itself and that is the […]

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The Start Of My Journey

When entering into any new project whether it be a lifestyle change or hobby, support is often necessary.  In the early stages, having a group or individual that can show you the ropes reduces the chances of making too many mistakes and in turn gives you more confidence. That’s all a bit obvious really isn’t […]

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The Reluctant Dom – Part 1

John lived the first 35 years of his life in blissful ignorance of the needs of others.  He was likeable, had friends and a great partner in the form of his wife Suzy.  He played golf on Sunday mornings and had sex on Saturday nights. His life was complete until Suzy asked him a question […]

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