Review – Tongue Mermaid Remote Sex Toy

The Mermaid Distributed by Bestvibe https://www.bestvibe.com First impressions We loved the colour! That may sound a bit basic, however, a number of sex toys we have used over the years have had quite deep vivid colours that start to fade in odd areas and lose that look of being clean. It’s perception more than anything […]

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Review – Bestvibe ‘Blow Job Deep Squeeze Sucking Male Masturbator’

Blow Job Deep Squeeze Sucking Male Masturbator Distributed by Bestvibe  https://www.bestvibe.com First impressions Instructions As said, the instructions are found in mini booklet in 4 European languages. I cannot vouch for the other three, but the English is poorly written in pidgin.  There is basic guidance for increasing your ‘irritation’ and giving you ‘much happiness.’  […]

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Photography and Our D/s

I do like a really sexy picture.  From my younger days of soft porn in magazines to my own creations with various cameras, they are just little works of art. I can’t actually remember the conversation regarding the taking of pictures, and if I’m honest I don’t think there was one.  I have photos that […]

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Fashion and Music

I was born in the latter half of the 1960’s and therefore missed the boom years of the sexual revolution and the ever decreasing skirt lengths.  My  parents were trendy and in their mid-twenties by the time I arrived, and like them I was dressed with the fashion.  As I travelled through primary school I […]

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Forgiveness

Without forgiveness life is governed by an endless cycle of resentment and retaliation. — Roberto Assagioli Forgiveness must take a huge amount of mental energy to process.  I see people on television who have had their children taken from them, and occasionally, when it transpires a dark deed has been committed and the perpetrator apprehended, […]

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Being A Grown-Up

I was listening to a recent podcast by the film maker and journalist Louis Theroux this week. If you haven’t heard his small collection of ‘Grounded‘ interviews, I recommend them to fill 30 minutes of a dog walk or exercise bike. In his interview with Jon Ronson, of similar fame, they stumbled upon the topic […]

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Rope Gag Exercise

I like rope.  Sounds a bit stupid when I say it like that, but it’s true.  From Soap-on-a-Rope at Christmas in the 1970s, to tug-of-war in the 1980s, climbing and rappelling in the 1990s and tying up and securing my wife in the 2000s, rope just has a feel about it. We have previously.   […]

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Pleasure

Lock down has produced a number of challenges for everyone, it’s a sliding scale.  Each day it becomes more normal, things that bothered you before now don’t, and things that didn’t now do, albeit temporarily. I admit that I find the slow pace of life nice. The lack of cars, people and general background noise […]

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Third Person

Reflecting on the past he could not remember how or why he had been invited the party. His immediate group of work mates were there, and a few additional guy who probably got invited to all the parties. They had the confidence and the cars to match, they were also five or six years older, […]

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I’m a Changing Man

Paul Weller’s music has been played at least once a week for the majority of life from the age of 15.  He wrote songs that reflected what was going on in my life at the time, mainly through manufactured association I admit. I guess that is the same for most people, every song on the […]

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