Even Vanilla Needs Control

On Valentine’s Day, I was treated to an unexpected show of old-fashioned vanilla affection.  To clarify, the affection show did not follow any D/s based rules in terms of asking permission.  Some may see this as topping from the bottom, or some other label that attempts restricts this type of behaviour in a long-term marriage.  […]

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Flogging-Inside my head

Very recently missy and I were discussing the reasons why she wrote for her blog.  As you can imagine, there are quite a few, one being that she wanted to provide me with feedback on our relationship.  Of course, missy could articulate that verbally when she wants too, however, anyone who reads missy’s blog with […]

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Who are you? – Dominant Reflections

Missy and I had our usual weekend discussion surrounding all things D/s, us and our writing.  Missy has been working on a revised project on Submissive Reflection, which I should let you know she has an Olympic Gold Medal for when it comes to self evaluation!  I do not hold any such medals, however, missy […]

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Time to do….nothing -#Monochromerotic

My entry for this round of Monochromerotic is a picture I took way back last year of missy modelling some lovely underwear.  The shot reminds me of a era gone by where those with wealth had time to fill their day with nothing but pleasure.  One can only dream!  

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2022 – The Year of the Dominant?

Oh boy, it’s 2022 and I’m not sure how I got here, or more to the point, what I did with 2020 and 2021!  I don’t think it’s an age thing, although that is a contributing factor I’m sure.  The mechanisms that we have had to follow during the pandemic made my world smaller and […]

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Dimming the Darkness

There is something about candle light that adds just the right amount illumination to an environment.  A candle flame knows its limits; In the darkest of places it cannot push beyond the power it gives off no matter how it tries.  In a way it is like D/s and being a couple, if you are […]

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The North Wind Doth Blow – Monchromerotic

There has been a sudden change in tempreture in our part of the world of late, however,  there is still no need don underwear under one’s kilt. I mean, why would you? The north wind doth blow, And we shall have snow, And what will the swallow do then, Poor thing? Oh, do you not […]

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Autumn Light – Monochromerotic

Autumn Light SO BRIGHT and soft is the sweet air of morning, And so tenderly the light descends, And blesses with its gentle-falling fingers All the leaves unto the valley’s ends– It brings them all to being when it touches With its paleness every glowing vein; The wild and flaming hollows of the forest Kindle […]

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Out of the Desert

The last time I posted anything with consistency was July of this year. After that I have not had the inspiration, desire or motivation to post anything. If you can’t write anything interesting, then why write at all?  I should point out that I do have a stupid amount of draft posts that only have […]

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Digital – What’s Next?

About this time last year, I wrote a post on photography. It was more to do with my relationship with a camera and taking photos of Missy. Nothing has changed in my feelings towards capturing her image on film, albeit a total lack of activity in that department for a number of reasons over the […]

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