Digital – What’s Next?

About this time last year, I wrote a post on photography. It was more to do with my relationship with a camera and taking photos of Missy. Nothing has changed in my feelings towards capturing her image on film, albeit a total lack of activity in that department for a number of reasons over the […]

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DIY – The Howler – 2021

Having been given a piece of industrial rubbber by a good friend of mine a few years back I made a rough impact toy that became known as The Howler.  The handle was made from an old oak chair leg, a hand saw and a lot of sanding. My tools for making such an item […]

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Names & Honorifics

I’m not entirely sure how my D/s or screen name came about exactly.  I think it had something to do with a US based D/s community site I was once a member of and trying to show my ‘Britishness’ off I went for His Lordship. Why I chose the actual name is must have been part […]

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Sohimi TORTURED LOVE Bondage Restraints

I was asked by our good friends at Sohimi to provide an unbiased review for their BDSM restraint Stainless Steel Ring.  The pictures looked very interesting, so I agreed with some excitment as to what this devicecould be used for!  The ring is 19.5 inches wide so plenty of room for even the most generous […]

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Questions – #TellmeAbout

I think it is safe to say that life throws up more questions than answers, and it would be wierd if you met some one and all that they told you was information before a question every appeared.  Going on a date would very different if you sat and told each stuff about yourself you […]

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Sex Toys – #Tellmeabout

My one main issue with sex toys is that new ones keep coming out, and I love new inventions, gadgets, and tools for my workshop. So where is the issue you may ask?  It’s the general disappointment with sex toys would be my answer.  There are millions of the rubbery, buzzing, probing, stroking, and stretching […]

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Safety – #Tellmeabout

Safety has been one of main sources of income for over 25 years, or at least consulting with companies and individuals on how not kill people and what to do if you happen find yourself in that position.  A little bit of planning and thought can make a massive difference to the outcome of a […]

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Harmony – Is She or Isn’t She?

They tracked the path of her yellow coloured MGB-Roadster sports car as it wound itself up the hill to the staff car park. The two young men were leaning out of the window smoking cigarettes. They could have smoked in the office, however, that would have stopped them from seeing the new Head of HR […]

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Needs and Wants in D/s

  If ever there was a topic that could produce unique response, this one is probably one of them.  We all have needs as humans which Maslow kindly decided to highlight in a triangle one day, and to be fair on him he wasn’t far off the mark generally speaking.  We have the ‘where I […]

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Life Gets In The Way

Excuses, excuses, excuses; Does that sound familiar?  Probably not something you will hear a sub say to a Dom, or a Dom to sub, however, certainly something either party may have said to themselves.  With all best intentions, life does get in the way of the things you do or try to do, you can’t […]

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