Questions – #TellmeAbout

I think it is safe to say that life throws up more questions than answers, and it would be wierd if you met some one and all that they told you was information before a question every appeared.  Going on a date would very different if you sat and told each stuff about yourself you […]

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Sex Toys – #Tellmeabout

My one main issue with sex toys is that new ones keep coming out, and I love new inventions, gadgets, and tools for my workshop. So where is the issue you may ask?  It’s the general disappointment with sex toys would be my answer.  There are millions of the rubbery, buzzing, probing, stroking, and stretching […]

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Safety – #Tellmeabout

Safety has been one of main sources of income for over 25 years, or at least consulting with companies and individuals on how not kill people and what to do if you happen find yourself in that position.  A little bit of planning and thought can make a massive difference to the outcome of a […]

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Harmony – Is She or Isn’t She?

They tracked the path of her yellow coloured MGB-Roadster sports car as it wound itself up the hill to the staff car park. The two young men were leaning out of the window smoking cigarettes. They could have smoked in the office, however, that would have stopped them from seeing the new Head of HR […]

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Needs and Wants in D/s

  If ever there was a topic that could produce unique response, this one is probably one of them.  We all have needs as humans which Maslow kindly decided to highlight in a triangle one day, and to be fair on him he wasn’t far off the mark generally speaking.  We have the ‘where I […]

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Life Gets In The Way

Excuses, excuses, excuses; Does that sound familiar?  Probably not something you will hear a sub say to a Dom, or a Dom to sub, however, certainly something either party may have said to themselves.  With all best intentions, life does get in the way of the things you do or try to do, you can’t […]

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Patience of an Angel

Relationships can be fickle things as I am sure you know. The longer you are together with the right person the quicker you are to make allowances for their behavioural changes and either accept the situation as it is or make something from it. These past few years have been challenging in many ways, and […]

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Kink – Tell Me About..

There was a time when having a kink was a front-page newsworthy item in a daily rag publication. They were usually exposure items of judges being canned or dressed as babies. Throw in a dominatrix wearing black leather and with scraped backed hair and an axe wound application of red lipstick, and you can fill […]

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MILF

I believe that I am the proud owner of a MILF.  The lady in question would argue the point I’m sure, however, I have sufficient evidence, from feed back, that she is mistaken; A ‘Mistaken I’d Like Fuck,’ if you will. The very first day I met missy she went into my MILF vault.  She […]

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Expectations

Why does the word ‘Expectation’ have such negative connotations?  It is all, ‘Have low expectations and you’ll never be disappointed’ or ‘I find my life better with low expectations.’  The internet is awash with hundreds of such statements. All I can say is there must be a lot people out there aiming low or with […]

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