A power exchange is very much akin to a delegation of authority, only more sexual. I will openly say that the power exchange within our relationship is not a straightforward as an instruction book or pulp fiction novel will tell you. This is mainly because it involves real people with feelings, egos, baggage and love. […]
It has taken me a long to get to grips with humiliation. Getting my head around the topic was constantly blocked by something, and for the life of me I just couldn’t break through the invisible barrier. Missy gets off being made aware that her body is giving her away when involved in activies that […]
The heat, silence and darkness pushed upon them with equal force. It wrapped around them like a hot wet blanket, stuck to their naked bodies like a second suffocating skin. Eighty feet above them lay the broken bodies of men amongst the shattered picket posts and barbed wire. The guns could still be heard this […]
When I was a kid I played two roles in school Christmas Nativity plays. One year I was a Roman soldier and another year one of Joseph’s (Technicoloured Dream Coat) brothers. There was something about dressing up and being someone else for a while. Okay, this was 45 years ago, however, I can still remember […]
I have been fortunate enough, at an early age, to have mentors in my life. Not just people who tell you stuff or instruct you; I am referring to people that give something of themselves whilst at the same time impart wisdom and support you. My first real mentor was my father, who from a […]
I know that I will be judged by some who read this, and may even cause offence to those who disagree with me. They are some of the inherent outcomes from free speech which I have written about before. However, this is supposed to be a bit of fun, and therefore I will open the […]
Dominance is very much about a state of mind. You may disagree, however, the more I look at it the more I am convinced that the essence of Dominance is a state of mind. You could argue that any conscious thought is a controlled state of mind, and you would be probably right. After all, […]
The Food for Thought Friday topic this week is LANDMARKS. What, if any, have been your particular landmarks, either in relation to your blog or your wider life? Do you have any future goals/landmarks you want to achieve? What are they? This is the 100th F4TF prompt and I really wanted to take part, firstly because it […]
Our eyes first fell upon Hot Octopuss 2 years ago when attending Eroticon in London. Hot Octopuss were one of the sponsors and had a stall set up with a wide range of toys from their product range. Most of the items had a generic brand look about them which we liked very much and […]
I have placed my trust a great many people over the years. Some I have trusted with my life; on the end of a rope, behind the wheel of a car, on the back of a motorbike and even on the end of gun. Others I have trusted to do what is right morally to […]