It’s Happened Again, and I’m Annoyed

Today I read a post that spelled out what a Dominant must be. In fact it didn’t just say what a Dominant must be, it told the reader what you have to be in order to be an effective one.  You “have to know yourself at sacred level” and “be hungry for it” and “if […]

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Face to Face

“If you find a couple of diamonds, save one for me,” her editor called out as she ran out of the door, late as usual. Being asked to write a piece on coal mining was not on the top of her list for prize winning journalism, however, when she was told that the last working […]

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Is anyone there?

Do you use your blog to communicate to your partner? Don’t worry, this isn’t a deep and meaningful post full of dramatic skylines and prosaic monologue!  I’m just curious if you are in a similar position. Missy and I have the ability to communicate quite well  (although there’s always room for improvement) and not all […]

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Dare to Bear – #FT4Friday

I have an odd relationship with nudity in that I love to be naked, and yet I don’t very much like what I see in reflection.  I know that’s not unusual, many people would prefer if certain things about them were different.  For me, I try and look beyond my own vanity and enjoy the […]

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Feet that be swift in running to mischief

I’m confident in saying that he would not have chosen to do this for a living.  Massaging feet was not the worst thing in the world, once you got into it, although it wasn’t what dreams are made of.  A handful of warm oil to soften the skin, kneading the balls of the feet like […]

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Elust #105

Photo courtesy of Mrs Fever Welcome to Elust 105– The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #106 Start with the rules, […]

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The Ali Punch and Mrs. Blair’s Knickers

In a fun activity prior to attending this year’s Eroticon, guests were asked to answer some questions about themselves.  One of the questions was two truths and a lie, a concept that I thought was fun. However, it did take some time to think something up that was plausible and Mr. Ali did feature, hence […]

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No Typical Conversation

I have often said that D/s can provide people with a level of openness that is safe and protected.  The relationship is based on trust, trust to expose your heart and soul without accusation or retribution.  A D/s relationship is the grown up version of the average relationship I like to think.  It isn’t just […]

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Room 403

She stood around 6 feet tall, with long blonde hair tied in a pony tail and fixed with a velvet navy bow.  She was not pretty by conventional standards, however, this 40 something lady was certainly attractive even handsome some might say.  One thing you noticed immediately about her when she spoke, was that she radiated […]

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A Place In The Sun

  When missy and I first got together we managed to escape to a small villa in Tuscany for two weeks.  It was pre-D/s, although not entirely pre-kink!  The days were hot and the evenings a warm blanket of perfumed air.  We drove hundreds of miles that holiday, hopping from one fortress town to the […]

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