That Was The Week That Was (Jan – Mid-Month)

TW-TW-TW started out as a scribble on the back on an envelope which soon became too full and too incriminating to have lying around!  My scribbles were my own and the accountability to complete them rested with me only. This not only meant it was easily lost under the pile of other old envelopes I […]

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I’m A Changing Man — The SafeworD/s Club

There are people of various genders who have the role of dominant in their relationship, and find it something that is naturally a good fit. Equally there are many that strive to be that type of person and find it harder than others, and yet they continue to try hard. It’s good to have aims,… To […]

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Read All About It (Part 2)

‘Read All About It’  brings you an insight into the what the media are saying about sex and relationships.  Whilst I tend to think some of what is printed is fit for the bottom of a bird cage, you can find some jewels amoungst the muck! That should not distract you from you own opinions, […]

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That Was The Week That Was (January)

TW-TW-TW started out as a scribble on the back on an envelope which soon became too full and too incriminating to have lying around!  My scribbles were my own and the accountability to complete them rested with me only. This not only meant it was easily lost under the pile of other old envelopes I […]

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Read All About It!

‘Read All About It’  brings you an insight into the what the media are saying about sex and relationships.  Whilst I tend to think some of what is printed is fit for the bottom of a bird cage, you can find some jewels amoungst the muck! That should not distract you from you own opinions, […]

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Beyond Sight And Sound

It wasn’t always like this, the darkness and the silence.  There was a time when his world was full of sound and vivid colours, all of which were taken for granted.  That was before the blast that ripped through the shopping centre, tearing away his sight and blowing away his hearing.  He imagined that people […]

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Fantasy Raffle

10 – Write me a fantasy to carry me away to an erotic land!  This is something that we tried last year in the D/s advent calendar for 2017 and so we thought that it would be nice to give it a go again. And as fantasy tends to turn into reality with us, this […]

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Merry F*%$?@ Christmas

A number of you who are cross-followers of both myself and missy will know that we have been running our own private (or not) Advent calendar  for each other.  Although some may groan at another person jumping on the band wagon of a Christmas-Advent-Kink idea, feel free, but I bet you’ll look at the pictures […]

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Top Sex Blogger Awards 2018

It is with great pleasure that I list the winners of the Top Sex Blogger Awards 2018 as voted by Molly Moore.  Please check out the full winner’s blogs if you have time and see what you might discover!  A big personal thank you goes out for my nomination, and that of submissy too.    1. […]

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Marriage Guidance

Could D/s Be The Replacment For Marriage Guidance?

Could D/s be the replacement for Marriage Guidance? (MG)  I’m aware that is both a bold and broad brush question, however, just bear with me a moment. My marriage to missy is not my first, and her likewise.  We have been to this rodeo before as one of my American friends once put it, and […]

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