My wife and I have always spoken openly about our sexual relationship. She would prefer I spoke more out our emotional relationship, however, that comes easier to her for lots of ways. The main two reasons I think, is that it means a great deal to her and the other is that she works hard […]
For the last 20 years, products have come to the market that boast, “You will have greater control.” Be this your bank account, your car, and even how to watch television. The strange this is, there is an undertone that the greater the control you have, the less you have to worry about. One could […]
It is fair to say that D/s is a personal thing between two people and is defined by both the dynamic of the lifestyle and their relationship. Nothing more can be more personal than the trust placed in one another to inflict both pleasure and pain. However, it’s not all about pleasure and pain is […]
I have had the privilege to speak to many people in a D\s relationship that has started in the bedroom and grown into a 27/4 dynamic. I appreciate this is not for everyone, as they say, “Your kink is not my kink.” However, there is a common theme that presents itself and that is the […]
Despite having a tag name of HisLordship, I do not claim to hold any title to reaffirm my dynamic or provide advice via a blog. I’m a man in a Dominant and submissive relationship with my wife. There are many people on the internet who claim to be masters, born Dominants and even, ‘Jedi.’ Some […]
When entering into any new project whether it be a lifestyle change or hobby, support is often necessary. In the early stages, having a group or individual that can show you the ropes reduces the chances of making too many mistakes and in turn gives you more confidence. That’s all a bit obvious really isn’t […]
John lived the first 35 years of his life in blissful ignorance of the needs of others. He was likeable, had friends and a great partner in the form of his wife Suzy. He played golf on Sunday mornings and had sex on Saturday nights. His life was complete until Suzy asked him a question […]
For us, D/s has improved be bothered to invest in their relationship.