Welcome to my blog and thank you in advance for taking the time to browse through the material contained within.

My reasons for managing a blog are many, however, in brief I originally hoped that it would help me locate couples living primarily in the UK who are in, or thinking of entering into, a D/s relationship that are either married or in a long term relationship. I hoped to share my thoughts, read that of others, raise positive awareness of LTR  in D/s and to have some fun with our chosen lifestyle.

I am also the co-founder of The SafeworD/s Club which is an on line community for people either in or entering into a D/s relationship. Missy and I wanted to create a non-pretentious environment for people to make friends, contribute to forums and generally learn more about our chosen lifestyle. Come and check us out!

Please feel free to comment and follow me so that I can too reciprocate the kindness.




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  3. Good Afternoon HL (from what used to be the UNITED States of America)

    Yes, crazy times on this side of “the pond”. But we’ll get through it.

    Like you and sub missy, my wife and I practice a 24/7 D/s relationship; and like you, we’ve reached a plateau. I read your article and reviewed your spreadsheet. I hope you don’t mind if I use both as a guide to help us get back on the path.

    One question….what is ‘wef’ ? I’m thinking it is a British term that roughly means immediate implementation and ongoing.

    Stay safe; stay well; stay focused.

    Dom Jacques

    • Hi Jacques,
      Thank you for your comments, and question! ‘WEF’ is With Effect From or sometimes used as With Immediate Effect so yes you were on the right lines. Good luck with your journey!

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