Firstly I should point for those who don’t know, I have big hands for fisting activities.  Out of interest, I checked and found I my hands are about 20% larger than the average.  There are advantages to this, however, Pringle tubes are inaccessible, gloves are always tight, some pockets trap you, shaking hands can be a hazard when engulfing someone else’s, trying to fix very small things and they make my cock look small.

On the plus side sexually, I can push a few boundaries.

Fisting is one of those activities I had watched on porn movies for years and thought it looked brutal.  Having now tried it numerous times with missy, it can be sensual, as well as a bit hardcore.  I have found that a lot of stimulation is required to relax the muscles and the mind.  Fisting, for those who have yet to give it a go, has nothing to do with a fist generally. It is a slow build up of inserting additional fingers and lots of lube over a prolonged period of time.  The vagina cannot stretch up due to the pubic bone, and like wise stretching sideways has its limitations also as it is governed by the muscle at the base; the Perineal Raphe.  This is the area that requires slow and methodical pressure to relax it. Once the tension in that area has reduced, you can then start to have some fun without the fear of injury.

Easing four fingers into missy’s vagina is not difficult when warmed up.  By bunching (my well manicured fingers) together to make them more vaginal-dynamic, access is pretty easy. Enter the notion of the thumb coming into play does present a challenge due to the width of the hand now becoming considerably larger.  Time, lube, stimulation and communication all help in getting a nice fucking rhythm going.   Quite often I will wear latex gloves as this creates a barrier between my rough, hairy hands and missy’s sensitive skin.

Is fisting about getting as much stuff in there as possible?  I want to say no, however, in the heat of the moment there is an to accomplish that very thing if I’m honest.  When missy works with me and lets that happen, we have come very close, but it’s a big ask. Considering my fist is the size of a baby’s head you can well imagine how such a scene can stop becoming sexy very quickly if rushed!

I love the connection, the ‘wrongness’ about the act and the amount of female cum I get all over my hands when doing it.  What more fun do you need when getting that up close and personal?