I was asked by the lovely PosyChurchgate this week if I would contribute to her SOSS post by consenting to an interview. How exciting I thought! I also asked to provide the details of a recommended blog. I chose a very new blog on WordPress by https://purplesgem.home.blog/
Next : Let me introduce HisLordship, Dom to 5ubmissy. He’s in my comfy chair now, so I’ll turn the bright lights on and get him to answer my probing questions!
- What made you decide to write a sex blog?
If I am honest I would say that I thought I was a good writer; I did say, ‘thought!’ That misconception came from writing a period story after I met missy. I was completely consumed by her, and due to recent divorces the time was not quite right. So my energy went into a story that rambled a lot. I even had it printed in a run of one! I still have it and it reads like it was written by a bright fourth year primary school kid! By the time it appeared on my blog my very own English teacher helped tidy it up. In addition I was also being a bit rebellious regarding the rules of another D/s based site I was a member of. ‘Thou shalt not write material for anyone but us.’ That nonsense really annoyed me and ‘Thee was asked to sling thy hook and leave.’ Born was The SafeworD/s Club from the ashes.
- What’s behind the title of your blog or your blogging “name”?
Oh that came from being a member of the aforementioned site which was American. I chose something quite pretentious and overly British that it just stuck.
- Describe your blog in a nutshell:
It’s really just a mind dump. It is disorganised and plots the highs and lows of being an average kind of guy who chose to be a Dom. There are some random stories thrown in but that is just delusions of grandeur!
- How long have you been blogging on this theme?
Since about 2016 I think. Missy and I did have our own private blog that we shared stories and thoughts on before that.
- What is your favourite type of adult toy?
It would have to be either an electric wand (not battery) with lots of power or very large dildos. Extremes do turn me on.
- If you were sent to a desert island (with no power issues) name the 1 adult toy you’d take with you:
The Doxy Wand every time. We have three now and the oldest is still the best!
- What’s your current sexuality? At what age did you realise this was the right ‘fit’ for you?
I am hetrorosexual, which does seem a bit boring in some circles in which we mix! I was only interested girls growing up, however, I know a good looking man when I see one!
- What’s your preference – naked or “dressed up” for sex? If dressed up, how so?
Dressed up before getting a sweat on, or to get a sweat on! Naked during.
- Is there a kink or fantasy you’re yearning to try?
I’ve always had a fantasy of watching missy get fucked by another man. The details are quite complicated, hence a fantasy! This has developed over the years with missy’s input whereby she is being used under my direction whilst unaware of who is doing what. Again, the finer details are complicated which makes the concept a pile of shifting sand!
- Name the fictional being or species you’d most like to have an encounter with:
Female vampires. As kid I loved Hammer Horror movies in which Victorian men were overcome by numerous sexy vampires in sheer clothing. Lots of nipples and teeth!
- Anal sex – Meh or Yay?
Yay for the Anal! It’s one of those things you know you shouldn’t really, but it’s rude not to when invited! Missy can really be an anal queen when it comes down to it. If I want to tip her over the orgasm edge, one touch will do it!
- Sex needn’t always be serious – do you have a funny moment to share?
I think you have to be there to appreciate most funny moments otherwise the impact is lost. However, I once asked missy to tie me to hotel chair firmly and proceed to suck my cock. Being in control in bedroom never allowed for missy to improvise, so I gave her the chance when she asked. She managed to drive me to distraction and the point of going mad, when the fire alarms went off! Trying to get out of quite tight restraints with one of the alarms outside your door, and a stiff cock getting in the way is quite stressful! Standing in the hotel car park some 10 mins later I was sure people knew what we had been doing. And no, I wasn’t still in the chair!
- Sexting – love it or hate it?
A thing we once did but not so much now.
- Which mainstream film depicts your favourite erotic scene?
That’s an easy one. Dusk Till Dawn directed, and starring Quentin Tarantino. Salma Hayek’s table dance has got to be one of the sexist scenes I’ve watched in a mainstream movie. I openly admit that I had no idea it was a vampire movie when I started watching it, so imagine my delight when a sexy female with sharp teeth appeared!
- Do you watch porn?
Yes. I am not a lover of commercially made movies with terrible acting and perfect bodies. I prefer more the home made variety where there is some perceived realism. I’m quite happy to watch a broad selection including bi and gay on occasion if the mood takes, however, group sex on a smaller scale would be a preferred choice.
- Nominate your favourite adult film:
I don’t have one purely because the larger commercial movies don’t appeal to me. If I had to choose one it would be on a roll of 16mm film that my dad owned. I was 15 years of age when I found it amongst a collection of Laurel and Hardy films that were kept in a box under the stairs. If my parents went out for the evening I would set his projector up and run the silent film through the mechanism as I had seen him do many times.
Two school girls on a bus get picked up by two lads and head back to their flat, another was about Nuns and randy window cleaner and (always my favourite in a peculiar way) a dentist that gave a busty blonde too much gas and air. She wore such a short skirt for going to the dentist I thought. Anyway, wanking became my new hobby!
- Before you go, please tell us 1 adult blog (aside from yours) which we must add to our reading list:
I think it’s important to promote people with new sites and offer encouragement. Purple’sGem is only a week old, and yet the content is very good for what is there so far. Her writing is of a good quality (says the f@*£%^ expert) and well worth a quick look.