My Dominance Up Close & Personal in 20 Days #17 – #18

So behind due to lack of available time; and so another a double day entry! Not much has really happened to keep me away from writing, however, yesterday was spent mainly sitting in a college canteen waiting for our youngest daughter to complete an admissions interview. This is just in case her exam results in […]

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My Dominance Up Close & Personal in 20 Days #13

Normally you will find that rattle on about one thing and another, however, not today.  Today I am taking an easier route because I read something on line that I liked, and I know a lot of people I know will like it too. This post pressed a button that has been pressed before, however, […]

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My Dominance Up Close And Personal in 20 Day #12

On a recent application form it included a number of boxes for me to tick regarding my colour, gender, religion, marital status and inside leg measurement.  I detest these additions to applications.  I fully appreciate some department, in the basement of a building, in small windowless room, with a flickering single florescent tube, sits a […]

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My Dominance Up Close & Personal in 20 Days #11

There are periods in my D/s relationship where I have no motivation.  That should not be confused with ‘can’t be bothered,’ they are two entirely different things.  Having no motivation can be an infuriating situation, and this mainly because I know what I like and what I need to do to get it.  I am […]

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My Dominance Up Close And Personal in 20 Days #10

Yesterday I had a job interview.  It was one of those jobs that could have been written for you, which to be honest, it added a bit more pressure to the whole event. In my line of work, things like this do not come up everyday.  suffice to say I did my homework, practiced my […]

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My Dominance Up Close And Personal In 20 Days #9

Fortunately for me, Sunday was quiet.  The reason I say fortunate is for the pure fact that I forget to mention something important yesterday.  I purchased Missy a new day collar for her birthday, and it had arrived.   The wearing of a collar is very important to her, and therefore the style needs to be […]

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My Dominance Up Close & Personal in 20 Days #8

Saturday is our day to communicate formally.  We usually either have a cup of team in bed and talk, or if we wake up late, hunger tends to draw us to the kitchen.  We try to get an hour of uninteruppted conversation before the kids start preparing for their Saturday jobs.  As I has said […]

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My Dominance Up Close & Personal in 20 Days #7

I have been doing a fair amount of reading the past few days.  I’m sure there is nothing in the material that would interest you; it’s for a job interview and therefore I need to ‘appraise’ myself on all there is know about the company.  I have interviewed a lot of people over the years […]

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My Dominance Up Close and Personal in 20 Days #6

Managing emotions is much harder than managing physical illness.  You can’t put a bandage on stress and or apply an ice pack to tears.  It’s a little bit like canoeing in white water, you have to look for signs and adapt accordingly.  Sometimes lean back and do nothing but rest, and other times you paddle […]

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