One of my favourite rituals is having Missy waiting in bed for me with the duvet pulled down to reveal her breasts. She does this every night because I like it. A half naked woman has something special about her whether she be in bed, in jeans or just in knickers parading around.
I looked beyond the obvious last night; the obvious being her erect nipples were reacting to the chill of the night air from the open window. What I realised went further than seeing my wife loooking nice for me by exposing herself. It was the exposure itself that excited me. I like seeing her on display for me, and the fantasy in my head from time to time that she could be on display to others.
We visited an event for kinksters in Edinburgh a couple of years ago. We dressed in steam punk attire with Missy wearing an open front period skirt. On reflection, I got a real kick of other people, men and women looking at her. I had placed a large temporary tattoo on her upper thigh to draw attention to that area. Her modesty was bearly covered by the skirt, which was just as well as I insisted she wore no underwear to the event.
So, I have discovered something that was staring me in the face for sometime and yet chose to ignore impact it has on my pleasure. I like seeing my wife on display for me, and for kicks I like to think of sharing that experience with others. Now, I’ve never played in a club before and I can only assume that by doing so adds to the experience by having onlookers. This may not be the same for everyone, I appreciate that. However, for me it would add something.
We have discussed on a number of occasions the effect of being caught up in the moment, the hedonism that sets in when playing. When the full extent of your contract can be laid to bare and an almost drunk feeling sets in. It’s during those moments one could imagine being in an auditorium, centre stage, like a Victorian medical lecture.
There is obviously a line between reality and fantasy, however, in our world where kink exists, it’s easier to build a bridge to pass back and forth without the need to make one the other. We are definitely a, ‘never say never’ couple, and yet we we do have a sense of responsibility to one another and our family. Parading a half naked woman around in a small town would soon be noticed, especially if she teaches your kids! Our kink takes us where we want to go and my sub is driven by my lead. I have no doubt that if I wanted to experiment with something new, and it was important to me, she would. I should state for the purposes of transparency that if something was important to me I would have to weigh up the ramifications and be assured that our relationship wasn’t damaged. Having people watch you spank your sub is one thing. Having a another person do it whilst I watch is another. Both examples have a different ‘impact’ on your relationship, and yet both are reasonably possible.
Maybe you see yourself in here somewhere? I tend to find that whatever I write about, someone has experienced it, thought about it or has a comment to make. How far has your fantasy gone to the point of it becoming reality?