That’s when I fell for the…

The concept of leadership in my adult life has always interested me.  I am one of these people who gets seriously hacked off when I witness people in positions of authority passing themselves off as leaders.  Having authority does not make a leader, you just have authority.  Since my early twenties I’ve looked at people in […]

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Conflict

I read somewhere that ‘conflict is a natural part of the creative circle’ or words to that effect. I can agree with that in part, although there’s little creativity in not speaking, which is how a lot of conflict ends up with couples. I’m a strong  believer that you can work towards the avoidance of […]

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Negotiating (The big sit down)

For the past 20 years or more, negotiation has been a key element in my day job.  I’ve been fortunate enough to negotiate with some really nice people and equally I have dealt with people who you wouldn’t want to meet on a dark night.  Each encounter provided me with a learning experience which will, […]

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Imagine if all the people….

Sitting on an aircraft this week I had time to let my mind wander in to the areas of the brain that have a door marked, ‘Utter Nonsense.’  I wondered what life would be like if Dominant and Submissive relationships were the norm. Being gay was once illegal in the UK. In fact anything other […]

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It’s A Gift!

Some of the great things about our lifestyle is the forum to share information, experiences and on occasion moral support! Above all, the main benefit is making new friends. People who understand your likes, dislikes and unusual tastes for all things kink. It’s great isn’t it! Two weeks ago a brown parcel arrived via the […]

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When you know it’s worth it.

We recently spent a weekend in Edinburgh for my birthday. Such occasions provide an opportunity to take some photographs, mostly of Missy. This can be a frustrating experience as I do not posses the eye of a photographer and the majority of my shots fail to meet my expectations, which are unrealistically high! Like most […]

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Oh no, it’s the 5-0

No not Hawaii 5-0, although the original show and sound track played a part of my youth, and still does.  It’s the other 5-0, whether it’s pronounced cinquanta, cinquante or go-ju, it’s still fifty whole years of age and I hit it last Saturday. It doesn’t bother me to be honest. I still feel 20 […]

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What’s the kick?

One of my favourite rituals is having Missy waiting in bed for me with the duvet pulled down to reveal her breasts. She does this every night because I like it.  A half naked woman has something special about her whether she be in bed, in jeans or just in knickers parading around. I looked […]

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