For most of my sexual life I have drawn on images to enhance masterbation; that’s not a new invention I know, I’m just putting that out there to set the scene of the post. As a young man I would also imagine the internal workings of a combustion engine to delay orgasm. The problem with that technique is that you get sexually turned on when thinking about engines! You have to be careful, especially if you’re a mechanic! Fortunately for me I matured, delayed my orgasm and stopped thinking about engines; it can be embarrassing having such a well thumbed owners manual hidden in your sock drawer…
One set of images that crept into my gallery of sexual pleasures was the introduction of other people. They never join in with what I’m thinking, they just watch and sometimes masterbate. I’m not sure where this came from, they just appeared one evening and never left. This got me thinking, what if I did have someone in the room watching whilst I conducted a scene with my sub? In theory it sounds okay. I mean, there must be a number of people out there who would gladly be our slave for the afternoon. “Sit there, say nothing and watch,” I say. I’m sure it would be mutually enjoyable if that was your thing. I don’t have a preference if it’s male or female, maybe one of each!
We have discussed playing in clubs, however, the clubs we have in our mind are somewhat fantasy and very removed from reality.
I’m obviously running away with this idea, however, I’m sure there’s something there, somewhere. I don’t know anyone who has tried this so I can’t draw on their experiences. Taking a third or fourth is one thing I suppose, however, having a silent party in attendance is another. I am not entirely sure what it is having a voyeur in attendance, I assume it’s adding an edge. I get off thinking about other people looking at my sub. I think she is fantastic to look at and by default I assume others would too. I have one or two pictures on FL of her, but what about in person? Having her blindfolded and looked upon. There is certainly something I like about it. It makes the blood flow!
I’m not about to post an advertisement in our local newspaper. I will, however, keep this one as a slow burn and visit it properly at a date in the future. I would be keen to know if any of my readers have either thought similar things or taken it a stage further and had their own tamed voyeur?
A mirror image to missy’s post. Can’t relay anything on the voyeur side of things from either angle. But a fantasy now….
A dinner party, black tie only, as the guests dine at a half-circle table, their eyes watch a woman kneeling on a padded dais. She is blindfolded and collared. Not nude… yet… she is wearing a half-bra, nipples are clamped, chain running down to her ankles. Her knickers are slit in the center, there is a red silk square between her legs so that the onlookers can see the dripping fluid turn the silk maroon. Hands cuffed behind her back, the translucent camisole shimmers in the candlelight. She is not gagged… yet… because her Master feeds her tidbits from the dinner. The audience chooses the food and the winner each time is allowed a closer look as the item is first marinated in her wetness. She is the dessert, the visual tart who will perform for the watchers pleasure. They will be close enough, that in between the strokes on her flesh, she will be able to hear fingers in pussies and cocks being sucked. She is forbidden to come until all her guests are satisfied first.
Lovely post HL. Perhaps see my post on ownership. I think there is something about having others look at our prized possession.
https://sensualdomsite.wordpress.com/2017/02/02/ownership-and-belongging/#more-24
I believe we are too early but my Pretty Girl and I have both shared a desire to be watched. Maybe not joining in but being watched or watching. I think understand and resonate with you.
We both enjoy the “upper floor” videos and like the fine dining idea as it suits our desire for flamboyance and fantasy. Adds something rather than just sitting in our bedroom!
Dungeon scene / location could work well too!
I would love to be watched and also have someone watch my Pretty Girl being spanked, looking sexy and cumming in front of you all.
There is something in the ego which likes this- – see my comments on positive pride versus ego.