I think that for most women, being desired makes them feel sexy.  That ‘I want you to want me’ idea still reigns strong and sometimes that can be a hard thing to find.  The drudge of daily life can drag you down and mean that you begin to feel a bit drudgy yourself.  Trust me, that is not a sexy feeling.

I think that women can tend to be stacked more to the emotional rather than the physical. In order to feel turned on there has to be an emotional connection initially, which is then enhanced by the physical connection.  I know myself that when I am in the right mood, my reactions are entirely different to when I am thinking about something more menial.  I know I generalise here, but for many men, I think that the physical response can be stronger and it can help them to feel…