My name is HisLordship, for the benefit of the BDSM community. I have been in D/s relationship with my wife for the past two years and it has completely changed my life for the better. For those of you who are in a similar situation, you will probably know what I’m referring too. It’s not just about the sex, although, the physical side of the dynamic is brilliant!
For us, D/s has improved our ability to communicate, send a clear message to people around us that traditional values of politeness, caring and loving are normal. Bitching about your partner to your friends is something other people do; people who lack respect for their partners and cannot be bothered to invest in their relationship.
Am I some freaky person who should be sniggered about? Do I lurk about the shadows preying on young people and wear tank top from the 1970s? Of course not. I am a married man with a large family of great children and a sexy wife. I have my own business, do DIY and enjoy cooking. I’m quite safe to be around and in most cases am considered to be a nice person. The fact that I enjoy BDSM and really get off on it does not in any way detract me from being a moderately sensible, loving, caring parent who trys to do his best in life. I am not a religious person, however, I do believe in the human spirit and that the majority of people on the planet are good.
Thinking about you in a tank top now Sir! 😉
I like your welcome – good luck with your blog.
missy
Well hello. I live in the USA, so no help there. HOWEVER, I look forward to getting to know you.
I have been in a D/s relationship with my wife almost since we met, in 2010. We struggle with consistency – for various reasons. But we have recently begun a restart of the DD side of that.
I am going at it differently this time: trying to understand my wife’s need to be dominated and to be used by me. As part of that, I am trying to understand the difference between agreement and acceptance. Obviously I know the difference between the words, but I need to internalize it within our context of ttwd. I am such that I prefer to have people agree with me rather than simply accept something.
Anyway… Thats a bit of insight into me. Thanks for your blog. I look forward to getting to know you through it.